Thankyou, i'm flattered. By the way, the picture down there isn't of me, and 'Bloke' means man in Australian. Anyway....one should always love, but love means nothing when it doesn't come with an appreciation with the darker side of things, that is perhaps that one day every one of us will die. Love comes from knowing these things and recognising that other things will live. I love you all.
Is dying part of the darker side? It's just part of the life circle. we see the darker side as the negative aspects of human nature; greed, ego without compation, ect.
of course Grief, loss, things falling apart, misunderstandings, seasons changing, fear, growing up. You're not born with the ability to cope with these things, you see them and in time you learn to embrace them...Its not as easy as simply loving.