Love or Money??

Once upon a time I met her-a pretty and gentle girl-Tanya. I was very happy when I am with her. Gradually I found I was in love. Several weeks ago, another woman who is rich and charming run into my life. She told me that she loves me so much and wanted to marry me. I cannot rufuse the lure of her fortune. BUT... When I want to broke up with Tanya, I found it's so hard to open my mouth, I realized that I was in love with her. I am confused now....

 

money comes and goes, true love only grows...love is one of the only truths of life, money makes people ugly, listen to what your heart tells you. People who are happy in love are rich.

 

I agree completely with what luvah said. If you choose money over love you're a complete fool.

 

you've known tanya and been in love with her for a while, from the sound of things.

and you've known this rich person only a few weeks, but she still wants to marry you?

are you cheating on tanya?

if you are, you don't deserve her love.

you probably don't even know what love is, since you are considering giving up love for money.

 

So, in a way, you are considering prostituting yourself little boy.
'Cause that's what I see it as, when someone marries for money.
Don't be stupid now. What if you'll never find love again?

 

people who are with someone for money are pathetic...

Tanya sounds like shed be better off without you...

 

exactly what i think! only fools choose money over love..

 

Sounds like the second woman wants to buy you, or at least rent you for awhile, until she gets bored and wants a new one.

Then it will be too late and Tanya will have found a real love....

But...choose money if that's what you truly love. I doubt Tanya will want to be blamed for your financial situation later.

 

"never for money always for love" I don't understand people who date otehrs for their bank accounts. I want to be taken care of in everyway but I can take care of myself and if I am not in a position to I would live within someone elses means not my desired means because love is love and money is just fucking paper.

 

And the Universe wonders where the phrase "Cold castrating b*tch" came from? It is very easy for someone from an industrialized nation to say, "people who are with someone for money are pathetic." Some cultures pre-arrange couples. Do I agree with it personally? No. Am I going to pass judgement on it? Absolutely not. When the pantry is empty and there is nothing in the fridge, money can certainly help out.

As for Tanya's being better off without him... well... that would be her choice. Cut these people some slack for heaven sake. He's from China! Not everyone is a valley girl.

 

what the hell is this about.. Sorry you dont like my post, but others said the same thing but thats right, everyone bashes what I say, cause its me saying..
Sorry I stick by whatever statement or statements I say..
And wtf is that valley girl statement thing..
I dont think what I said was wrong, but thanks for analyzing it for me champ

 

^

i'll stand by what you said, too.

if the guy who started this thread was in desparate need of money, that would have been pertenant enough for him to mention at some point in the post... he was in love and satisfied with the other girl, when he had her, which implies he can live and be happy without this other woman's fortune.

so keep at it, shroom.

and duncan, no need to make things personal, no need for name calling and crass assumptions.. that's just not cool.

 

Thank you!

 

Theres nothing in the World like being in love . I say KEEP THE LOVE !

 

yes , everyone and every situation is different . its easy to choose love over money abstractly ....but impossible to advise someone when you dont understand the totality of their situations .....and if anyone knows of any lonley but wealthy widdows . send em my way ...

 

Fuck, how do you ever even have to considder that... If you love eachother then go for it... If I loved a poor girl and a really rich girl came on to me, I'd rather be with the poor girl and have boiled toothpicks for dinner untill I die after a few weeks than go for the rich girl...

If I was single, then I'd totally take the rich girl, if she's hot that is

 

Go for the money

 

Another voice of reason.

 

I have a very dear friend I have known for many years and love her very much. She is also a Millionaire. She asked me to marry her many times-I refused and told her I love her but am not in love with her. It doesn't sound like from your post that you are aware of what that means right now. I agree Tanya is way too good for you and knows what the term "Unconditional Love" is all about. Good Luck in your search for happiness-sounds like you will need it!
I got this instead-Priceless!

​

 

Well, if it's love yer don't have to think about it.....the starter of this thread did....he ain't in love...he might as well have the cash....