To me.it's loving and cuddling with my husband after he has shared me with our friend. I know that this is not for everyone, but it works for us. Hubby knew early in our marriage that I was faking it when we made love. He brought this up to me. After thinking it over I told him if that's what he really wants we would try it. It's all good here! Our friend gets what he wants, I get what I need, and I make sure that hubby is Happy! This started way before the internet or knowing about cuckolding or wife sharing! Alice
The only thing that's important here is that all participants are willing and happy with the arrangement. Not for everyone as you say - but who are we to judge. Enjoy....
I don't see any objection if husband and wife are both willing to share another guy or girl, and having done so, they are happy and satisfied.
It like my wife has said when she fucking another guy he is nothing more then a sex toy to her to be used for her sexual pleasure. She love me, and I love seeing her have sexual orgasms weather it from me or another guy. There is nothing sexy then watching another guy fuck my wife and seeing the sexual lust and passion she shows as the other guy fucks her. It so hot to see her good from innocent housewife, to a sexy hot wife who cannot get enough hard cock.
Love is that feeling of complete happiness and joy at the sight of someone (butterflies) that just bubbles up from the inside and bursts out of you.
The way I see it is there are many very different emotions. Love is only one of them. I see them as waves in the ocean. When you feel yourself "FALL in love" you are riding a wonderful wave but then bam here comes another labeled jealousy because you are not sure if she is truthful about a certain issue and it knocks you down and makes you vulnerable for the next wave called hate and yet another called vengence. And so the game is played. Maybe the love will return maybe not. Maybe you will stick it out maybe you want out of the emotional tumbling. Next time try not FALLING. Keep yourself together all the time and don't allow an emotion change the dynamics of your existance. From this solid vantage point all relationships are just that, relationships. Then you can eventually become an expert surfer and ride any wave that comes your way with pleasure. You wont get knocked down and your relationships will be better than ever because there are really no emotional boundaries.
