Looks aren't everything...

no offence, but LMAO


just wondering, how do you go about using an Internet forum?

 

Mmmm IMO looks do matter but not in the way of fancyable!! There has to be chemisty between 2 people to get them talking or whatever and then that can go onto appearance, some people go straight for look but not moi

 

If you see a really ugly person that you have not met, are you going to try to talk to them to find out if they are beautiful on the inside? Probably not,(tho I'm sure that some will say they would and not be lying, but probably not)

Looks are what attracts people initially, But what is important,obviously are things had in common with one another.

 

saying a long term relationship boils down to common traits is pretty silly if you ask me

 

i would rather date a good man who may not be attractive my other peoples standards than a really handsome man who was a complete dumbass. if i dont find someone attractive but like the person that they are then to me they become attractive. and if yall think im lying then come to california where even the ugliest people get laid.

 

it all depends on the actual person and what there personality is like for me i think

 

I didn't say common traits, But I also didn't say common Interests either. And that is what I meant. They say opposites attract, but do they really?

 

Looks arent anything, they're EVERYTHING!

 

well, I would say that it's a lot more about what you are attracted to than anything

me and my girl are together cause we are attracted to each other and can connect on each other on multiple levels (same with the last girl I was with, which would have prolly worked out longer if not for her drug problems)
but I haven't too much in common with either one
a few similar interests, and a few shared traits, but not many

common interests and traits can most certainly help, but I wouldn't trust a relationship that is based upon them very much

 

easy e, isn't that a bit shallow?? i think so

 

I have dated women with movie star good looks and women who are plain looking. Given a choice, I would rather date the good looking woman, but if her personality and intelligence sucks, she is nothing more than arm candy.

 

i completly agree, everyone say im shallow becuase of it too. I started a thread similar to this

http://www.hipforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=213229

 

I feel that looks aren't everything, but I feel that looks are what initially attract you. Most of the guys I dated have varied in looks. Some of them have been real nice to look at and some of them were more plain or kinda quirky, but I was attracted to them all. Sometimes what someone lacks in pure physical beauty can be made up in other ways. A guy I used to date was very outside the norm of the men I dated as far as looks go, (generally I like skinny, dark-haired boys, but he was stocky and red-headed) but he had a good aura and I was very attracted to him. The guy I'm with now is someone I've known forever and recently met back up with. I always enjoyed spending time with him, but I just couldn't keep my eyes and hands off him when we went out. He isn't conventially good-looking and definitely the only punk rocker I've ever dated, but he's adorable to me

 

Lizzie can truly"see" people better than we can.
She can tell how you are by getting to know your mind and not physical appearance. I stand corrected by saying looks initially.

By the way, intellgence is a VERY sexy feature,and you can't "see" that when you walk into a room.

 

intelligence is the sexiest aspect of a woman in my opinion. just my opinion.

 

I completely agree.

 

aww you 2 are real sweet {{{hugs}}}, problum is dono who to hug first hee hee , i think blind people see the true person underneeth the shell, and the shell doesn't instantly throw them off like my sighted counter parts, who wouldn't speak to alot of the people i do because they don't like the way they look, they don't even bother getting to know the person because they don't like them for what ever reason., i think they are missing out on a lot because they are blinder than i am in lots of ways. i will tell you something else as well, i don't envy them iether, i'd rather be blind than have there sight any day if they act like that...

 

no offence meant just how i feel

 

damn right baby, well put , we should all do that.maybe be more love in this world.

 

Lizziet - we all want to know how you can do the internet so well if you are blind. You probably have Braille computer keys, but how can you read what others have written?