Looking for some thoughts

You must not have read the post.....

It is boarding on a health issue, I've lost a lot of weight and with that is excess skin. It can cause problems. Plus with my right arm it is bad.

And yes I have a husband who supports this and why should I not look good for him as well? I haven't worked hard losing weight to still be frumpy.

 

Not everything is about getting or keeping a man... sometimes we're "Allowed" to do things for ourselves....

 

Well done on losing weight!
I'm not sure if you're still looking for opinions on this matter as the last post was in February, but I couldn't help getting involved!
I believe that you should do whatever makes you happy. It's not a wasted effort to lose weight and still have loose skin, but it will make you feel a bit insecure, and the more you lose the more noticeable it'll get. If it were me, I would get the surgery, especially with your Erb's palsy which makes it difficult for you to work your arm, as you said. There's absolutely no shame in doing that. It's not like you're getting lipo or a gastric band. You accomplished the weight loss on your own! What's wrong with a little tweaking? You wanna look and feel comfortable with your body. Heck, you gotta live in it for many many maaaany years still! But I'm sure you'll look beautiful no matter what you decide to do.