I think that coke is worse than MDMA in every possible way. Coke's purity is far below Ecstasy overall. I'd be kidding myself if I said every single E pill I have had was pure or good, but I would say 8/10 times I get a decent to good pill. The major difference to me is usually with coke you are shuffling that shit up your nose for an entire night, as where E it's just 1-3 pills. Cocaine in the way it works on the brain and even it's effects is not world's apart from methamphetamine, which along with piperazines (many are similar to meth) are what people usually worry about in their E pills. So essentially you are getting a coke-esque high with bad E pills. I went through a period of fairly regular coke use for about 2 years man and i've used E for 5 years now, it's not like i'm being that biased. I felt way more lack of control, miserable and stupid from cocaine then i every have from ecstasy. Both have comedowns, although i've found about 1/2 the time the e comedown is tolerable as where I have never enjoyed or tolerated coming off coke. E comedown is just like being depressive and wanting to be quiet the rest of the night, a coke comedown is fiending and every single thing slightly out of comfort (even to the point of being asked questions) is irritating. Especially with your girl MDMA is the way to go.
You guys make it sound like mdma is easy to come by...only shitty unpure x is available to me. i dont even know where id start to find coke either.