Splitting from my husband and have always wanted the communal life. Looking for something in upstate NY that is family oriented (aka allows children)
I had to open this thread when I saw the title, assuming a 'child safe' was where you put the children when you don't want anyone to steal them.
The original post is kinda old, but the last reply isn't. So to them I say: Fellowship for Intentional Community. They curate a directory of intentional communities from all over the world. You can look for type (hippies, Quaker, off-the-grid, polyamorous, co-op farm, etc.) or location.