So my man's penis is smaller then average and we are both on the heavy side we are trying to get pregnant but it seems like when we do have sex that he can't finish (cum) so we have to stop he says that he can't really feel me that good too keep the stimulation going we tried me on back legs up pillows under me and nothing we tried doggie style and nothing. If we do doggy I have to keep my legs spread some what apart Because if I close the to make me a little tighter the he can't enter me please help I can't send pics of our private areas if that'll help get real advice we aren't ashamed well I'm not lol
This response is going to be pretty forward and blunt. Being "on the heavy side" might be the issue here. Especially with him. I suggest that the problem isn't your body size, sex positions, the firmness of your vagina or even his length. Although one in three men cannot even see their cock. Yep, they are too fat to look down and see it poking out from under their belly. So I ask, can your man see his penis? He may not be that short or below average. For every 30 to 50 pounds of extra padding over the normal male body weight and size the cock appears to be one inch shorter on average. If he is 100 pounds heavier than the basic height and weight guide for his body style his cock could be 2" longer than it shows. He may have a whopping 6 or 7 incher hiding inside that big body he is carrying around. Okay, so what does that have to do with not feeling anything during intercourse? A lot. Let's look at the issues presented for the overweight man. They can be of low self esteem, reduced stamina, skin issues, loss of sensation, and circulation problems. I'm going to start with the loss of sensation issue. That's because a fat girls pussy feels just as good on a fully functioning cock, no matter how long it is, as a skinny girls and anywhere in between. Believe me I've had fun with different body sizes of women and know this to be true. If your man can't cum from intercourse it's possible the 4,000 plus nerve endings in his cock are being squashed by his extra weight. Without the nerves working properly he will not feel any sensations from that silky smooth vagina of yours. In order to build up the sensations towards orgasm he has to fuck longer which takes stamina. That's the next issue. He probably doesn't have that either because he's pushing around more of himself than he has to. Therefore he gets tired and quits fucking. He may be able to ejaculate through masturbation but that takes less effort. Jacking off is basically arm and hand movement. With fucking you have to move your whole body. By doing so he tires out before cumming, may feel bad because of it, and has a lower self esteem of himself. Now he's in a downward spiral which is comforted by food. Which adds the weight, hides the penis, causes it to be less sensitive, the body can't fuck for long, feels bad he can't fuck and cum, and then eats something to comfort himself. Plus, since those 4,000 plus nerve ending lie right under the skin any issues with the skin affects the sensation of those nerve endings. The cock being pressed into folds of excess body fat all day is a breeding ground for tons of bacteria. Bacteria that isn't good for the penis whether it is circumcised or not. Add all this up and your man isn't going to be able to get you pregnant unless as suggested, you together engage in artificial insemination. Bit that isn't nearly as rewarding as fucking and cumming in the woman to make a baby. This may have been a harsh post but the bottom line is, IMHO, if you both want to get you pregnant by intercourse he needs to fix his body so it will function better. As far as becoming pregnant you might think about how your body will respond to that. Being overweight yourself presents a lot of complications while carrying a child full term. I hope the best for you and your man. There's nothing more special than having children and leaving a legacy in this world which you don't know how it will turn out.
Thank you Yes ur response was until and straight forward and I do appreciate it I will consider my options and try to get us both on a good diet to lose the weight and he is able to cum while jacking off and that makes since because it'sess body movement
