Ok.. I'm asking as I don't believe anal sex (safe and not destructive style) doesnt hurt or cause any long term affects to the anus. My wife is saying thats why she doesn't want it. I reminded her that she'll shove four fingers in me all the time and I don't have issues.
Obviously you can damage your rectum and maybe sphincter with violence and crazy penetrations but I've been taking cocks in ma bum the last 54 years, and in volume since I went onto PrEP six years ago...so definitely adds up to more than 1500...and some more than once...haha. And plenty of douching too.... And still enjoying ...... but of course female anatomy differs...... Simon
Done safely, sanely, with good prep it’s all good. She probably has other real reasons she doesn’t want to do it. I wouldn’t push her on it.
My first wife was the very same way until one evening when I was about to fuck her doggie style, I teased her bung hole with my thumb using her pussy juice as lube and noticed she began bucking her hips and moaning. I immediately placed my tongue on her hole and began rimming her ass as she moaned even louder to then say put your dick in me baby. She became an anal queen after that evening and said she experienced much better orgasms through anal sex versus vaginal sex. Over 28 years I fucked her in the ass at least a thousand times and it was just as tight the last time as it was that very first time.
My wife thought ill of it at first. I had to show her that by fucking a big dildo myself . Like you, never had any issues. She accepted the logic and began to fuck my ass with every toy we had.
I don't believe normal anal sex has any bad side effects. That muscle is meant to stretch wide and that's what happens. Certainly, other medical issues could arise regardless of having anal sex but just taking a cock or a toy up there is, in my opinion, just fine.
