Long Distance Relationships

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by hippychrome, Oct 3, 2008.

  1. mariecstasy

    mariecstasy Enchanted

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    that is interesting. A Russian lapdancer huh? still in the relationship?
     
  2. IamnotaMan

    IamnotaMan I am Thor. On sabba-tickle. Still available via us

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    Still see her- once in a while .So its not a relat in the "normal" sense currently.First time I ever felt ... how do I put it?

    Couldn't exactly explain it.Partly cos I'm 1/2 Slavic/Russian by blood?
    ( same appearance)She has my outlook , type of humour, is clever and other stuff..(lots) LOL
    But my line of work has made it diffic in recent times , re any commitmt , so...
     
  3. Penny

    Penny Supermoderaginaire

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    It doesn't work for me.
     
  4. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Don't you have a boyfriend long distance?
     
  5. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    well if she didn't, how would she know it doesn't work?
     
  6. bird_migration

    bird_migration ~

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    Common sense.
     
  7. I'minmyunderwear

    I'minmyunderwear Newbie

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    apparently not, since she tried it anyway :rolleyes:
     
  8. bird_migration

    bird_migration ~

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    We all have our moments of weakness.
     
  9. hippychrome

    hippychrome Member

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    Its true what mariecstasy posted about people coming into your life for reasons, usually things are accomplished and 1 or both are helped in ways you'd never expect. But when does 1 know what the final reason was for meeting and calling it a day, esp after 20 years !!*sigh*
     
  10. hippychrome

    hippychrome Member

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    Oh, that was priceless, that was my 666 post lol
     
  11. FireflyInTheDark

    FireflyInTheDark Sell-out with a Heart of Gold

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    They're bloody awful, but worth it if #1, the relationship has a strong foundation (as in, you've met and spent a considerable amount of time together prior to the separation, and #2, there is a resolution to the separation within sight. Even then, it's hard to keep it alive. When my boyfriend was gone for more than two months I would start to feel numb to everything... When the phone would ring, I would just sigh and think, "what's the point? more talking to a cold, hard box..." In the end, it's all about how strong you are. Some people can't do it. I never thought I could, but now he's here, and things are pretty good. I'm glad I stuck by him. :)
     
  12. SenorGrieves

    SenorGrieves Member

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    i should really stop coming on here
     
  13. Bella Désordre

    Bella Désordre Charmed

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    I can't do long distance relationships. I get bored and cheat or get insecure and start fights to test people's commitment to me.
    Now that I am married, it's different. I couldn't imagine being with anyone else. It's so cool that I get to spend the rest of my life with my best friend.
     
  14. FireflyInTheDark

    FireflyInTheDark Sell-out with a Heart of Gold

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    :confused:
     
  15. hippychrome

    hippychrome Member

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    did some stuff get deleted :(.
     
  16. hippychrome

    hippychrome Member

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    Tjhats gonna help my depression if it did :(. NOT.

    Dam, is so hard though long distance relationships. Am sort of in another. Why can't our perfect partners live down the raod from us ????
     
  17. hippychrome

    hippychrome Member

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    Or at least just a town away *SIGH*
     
  18. Dragonfly

    Dragonfly Senior Member

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    I don't know, I think I'd rather have no relationship than a long distance one. but that's just me
     
  19. Indy Hippy

    Indy Hippy Zen & Bearded

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    I made a long distance relationship (about 4 hours away) last for 5 years back when I was younger but I definitly wouldn't recommend 'em for anyone. They tend to end in heartbreak.
     
  20. Cate8

    Cate8 Senior Member

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    I dont see why, if you really love each other, and its that hard to be seperated, why someone wouldnt move.
     

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