Still see her- once in a while .So its not a relat in the "normal" sense currently.First time I ever felt ... how do I put it? Couldn't exactly explain it.Partly cos I'm 1/2 Slavic/Russian by blood? ( same appearance)She has my outlook , type of humour, is clever and other stuff..(lots) LOL But my line of work has made it diffic in recent times , re any commitmt , so...
Its true what mariecstasy posted about people coming into your life for reasons, usually things are accomplished and 1 or both are helped in ways you'd never expect. But when does 1 know what the final reason was for meeting and calling it a day, esp after 20 years !!*sigh*
They're bloody awful, but worth it if #1, the relationship has a strong foundation (as in, you've met and spent a considerable amount of time together prior to the separation, and #2, there is a resolution to the separation within sight. Even then, it's hard to keep it alive. When my boyfriend was gone for more than two months I would start to feel numb to everything... When the phone would ring, I would just sigh and think, "what's the point? more talking to a cold, hard box..." In the end, it's all about how strong you are. Some people can't do it. I never thought I could, but now he's here, and things are pretty good. I'm glad I stuck by him.
I can't do long distance relationships. I get bored and cheat or get insecure and start fights to test people's commitment to me. Now that I am married, it's different. I couldn't imagine being with anyone else. It's so cool that I get to spend the rest of my life with my best friend.
Tjhats gonna help my depression if it did . NOT. Dam, is so hard though long distance relationships. Am sort of in another. Why can't our perfect partners live down the raod from us ????
I made a long distance relationship (about 4 hours away) last for 5 years back when I was younger but I definitly wouldn't recommend 'em for anyone. They tend to end in heartbreak.
I dont see why, if you really love each other, and its that hard to be seperated, why someone wouldnt move.