If I could get away with it, I would tell you to go fuck yourself, but since I can't, I won't. All I will say is that you don't know me, and to say that all or even most women are unhappy because they're from a certain part of the world is almost racist. I don't like to bring race into the mix, but because liberals are so good at it, and this is predominately a liberal forum, I am going to make a rare exception by playing the same card liberals so often do. I don't believe women are any more happy here in the west, but they're conditioned to think they are based on media propaganda. Women from other parts of the world are more family oriented and in touch with things that are real, as opposed to things such as fashion and celebrity, which is what really makes women feel inadequate. I like real women, and I just don't see true femininity in the majority of American and European women who have had their minds hijacked by mass media marketing. Your thread is rife with all sorts of insinuations that are not true. This really says more about you than it does about me. Therefore, I am not going to address things that are merely being projected on to me because of your own inadequacies. Perhaps what you really need is a good shrink.
To the OP:Re relationships,when they're good?Fine! I can't see anything wrong with being in a perm long term r/ship as long as you're both respected.Love to me is a pretty loose word actually.Lots of people claim they love their partner,but treat them with disrespect,cheat on them and so forth and is that really love?I don't think it is.I've had quite a few discussions re this through mainly work colleaques of late.Some observations.....One lady recently told me she was'nt "allowed"to choose what she wanted to watch on tv at night with her husband.He had total control,watching mainly footy (Yawn!),he also pretty much forced her into them buying a brand new car,when there was nothing wrong with the car they had (her words not mine),which she now has to share costs with.He comes home grumpy every night from work!Nice!Not!Is that love? He would'nt last 5 mins in my house. Another colleaque,she's the control freak.Her husband (poor b*****)is walked all over!Is that love? My first husband caused me alot of stress over the way he handled his finances.He had to keep up with his brother in law,so changed the car numerous times,brought firearms etc whenever his BIL did.Fine if you can afford it.He could'nt.The last straw that broke the camels back,came when I went to run a bath for our two (then)young kids,and no water came out of the bathtap due to ex husband not paying the water bill.Is that love?No!!! Pressed Rat:You sound very old fashioned.You say women today are domineering these days?I'd like to think we're equal! Are you the type of guy who has to have it your way or its the freeway?Expect dinner on the table when you get home?I had a conversation a few years ago about Thai Brides and why western men were attracted to them.Seems the majority thought Thai women were subservient,did'nt argue,and did as they were told.Having said that,a thai woman I work with (who is married to a british guy,they live in the UK)told me she chose to be with her now husband because he could offer her a nice house,more money etc and that when he died (He's considerably older than she is)she would sell the house,return to Thailand,and build herself a mini mansion.There was no mention of Love!
Well it looks like you did. So far! I take nothing back, but I will help you to be educated about what I do know! You see, they are controlled by men, some not unlike you, but so long as women become stronger, we can help each other, and you will understand more. I've been to these places, I've sat with these women..the difference between us , is i know, I've been, seen, and met. I've also worked with them. I don't take offence by your words pressed rat, how can I, when you already admitted, you don't have any knowledge..here is some reading for you. I will post some for you, of the group I worked with.. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_genital_mutilation 1 The Prohibition of Female Genital Mutilation (Scotland) Act 2005 replaced the 1985 Act in Scotland. 2 https://www.gov.uk/government/topical-events/girl-summit-2014 http://www.awtministries.com/english/culture_detail.php?id=155&cat=culch
What does female genital mutilation have to do with ANYTHING I said? My girlfriend's genitals were never mutilated, so what, exactly, is the point you're trying to make??
Your ignorance says a lot..learn!!! Not everything is so open! Educate yourself, your right, there is differences in women, but you have it totally wrong! If your going to believe these women are happy, then at least have more than one woman's opinion....a woman who prefares wester culture and men..or does she?
