Lonely....hoping This Place Is A Good Outlet For Me

I googled and found this site, and I thought I would post and see if I get replies or not. A little background on me....i'm 46 and have been divorced for a few years. I'm a pretty shy guy when it comes to the ladies - or maybe, it's more like I have a fear and hatred of rejection. Despite that, the first year after my divorce I did have some sexual encounters with a few different women. Not really much of my doing, they kind of fell into my lap, so to speak. But since my last time - going on nearly 3 years now - I have had nothing at all. I don't mind too much, because I'm kind of a loner and I really don't want a committed relationship. But I do miss the sex, and I do get horny alot, and during those times recently I really have really desired to talk with real women but I can't seem to find any. I have some friends that I have talked sexually to, but I feel like I've done that too often and I have gotten to the point of annoyance with them. I've tried to seach for places online but I can't find anything. THe only times I have even gotten responses, turns out to be scammers from Ghana or something.

So, I guess my question is...does anyone have any advice for me? Anyone know of where I can meet real people to chat online or whatever? I know women are much different from men, but I find it hard to believe that there are some women that would be interested in this big old world.

 

Remember how you felt, just after your divorce, the freedom, the desire to show the world you can do it alone? Well you need to get that back..you will be fine then.

Good luck

 

I meant to say, I try to find real people to chat and message online. More for sexually implicit stuff.

But yeah....I think back how that first year was....it was really, really tough. But I had women hitting on me all of the time and now nothing. Can't even find anyone to talk to on Tinder. I'm like the plague....