"Location, Location, Location"

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  1. passygalore

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    That's what they say in real estate, anyway.

    For me, location can contribute a lot to sexual arousal--and bedrooms, or even structures, aren't high on my location preference list. A little risk goes a long way, but I suspect it can be an actual erogenous trigger much like a view of certain body parts. This can be carried to extreme, but I haven't found that to be necessary.

    Solo sex doesn't interest me any more without a stimulating location element to awaken interest. I don't need it for partner sex, but it can certainly intensify the experience.

    This probably won't matter to high-sexed young guys, but older forum members might have some personal experience around this issue of generating arousal based on location, and even temporarily modifying location attributes.

    Here's an example from my experiences that includes location elements and oddities, and other unplanned items that are very stimulating--at least for me.

    Once, a plumber did a home job for me. The weather was hot and I was only wearing light boxers, shirtless, and barefoot. He said I was easy to look at, as he looked me up and down. We joked about nude weather and that's how we both finally ended up--nude in the hot garage, with door open, side gate open--both of us displaying erections.

    Eventually, I found myself lying on my back on the dirty cement floor, surrounded by plumbers tools--my legs waving in the air, my penis getting scrunched, but getting "plumbed" very vigorously. Afterward, while I still lay there, deep in reverie, he continued the plumbing using the handle on his 18" plumbers wrench. He said he wanted a memento that he could brag and tell stories about.

    (He gave me his card, and we met later on "field trips". And no, there was no charge for his work.)​

    The real estate industry also says, "Location is everything!" My penis actually stiffens a bit when I hear that!
     
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    I fully agree with you as location and/or atmosphere can trigger feelings of arousal. For me it's always been the outdoors, walking paths within public parks which by the way was the atmosphere in which I experienced my first male/male oral experience. The atmosphere of the woods is peaceful, but also provides the sounds of natural as well as the thrill of a potential passer by. The same goes for a campfire as well. I've spent many evenings around the ambiance of a campfire in the late evening on my knees servicing men as well as being serviced.
     
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  3. passygalore

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    Yes, I think you would qualify for membership in any hypothetical forum Location sub-group. I could well imagine what you were feeling while immersed in the natural sounds and smells of the woods while connecting with your partners. But, location sensitivity, in the sense that it's actively utilized and exploited, not just experienced, seems to be an outlier characteristic.
     
  4. Si69

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    yeah, location can be an added stimulus for sure.
    Last xmas day I met a young guy in a public park around midday and he fucked me standing against the side of his car.....hehe

    Always good to get outside of your comfort zone.

    Simon :)
     
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    Regarding standing, we're favoring it right now over doggie/missionary because of the very hot weather. Less body contact for one thing and we've even done it standing in a cool creek (remote, never seen anyone else there). Normally, I tend to avoid a long cock (for doggie/missionary), but it allows me to stand up straight after he inserts when enjoying the standing option.
     
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