Living with a small penis

Mine is slightly under 4 when hard, soft it’s maybe an inch. Mine is small but I don’t care, I don’t have partnered sex, even if I did Iam perfectly comfortable with its size, i gives me pleasure and that is all I care about

 

Mine is small. 4.25 thin. We have 3 kids. I am very athletic. We have a great sex life. She is multi and a squirter. I didn't pick my size. We have used trial and error but we got it down for us! I am submissive and can be her hot little chic for her in bed. I can wear some hot panties for her and as she says" clits belong in panties!" We have a vibe for intercourse. When she gets on top It stays hard but small and we play clit to clit and there is one soaked towel under us. I like on my back and she sits on my face and I lick the cum off her clit and let her squirt. We have all kinds of fun games that end in pleasure for all of us!
Reality for all of us married or in long term relationships. Enjoy what you have!

 

Very athletic, popular and happy until I met the absolute hottest girl I had ever dated till that time, I was 21.
After an off and on hot relationship(least I thought) she started becoming a little distant.
We were actually having sex when she just let go. During what seemed like a really good session she told me I should go ahead and cum because she wasn’t goin to. She then went on to tell me that when she and her friend visited some other friends that went to college a few hours away she ended up fucking a guy all weekend and he of course had a “much bigger dick” than me. She told me it would take a while to get use to me again. We weren’t exclusive but this was the first time either of us as far as I know had seen someone else.

So it turns into a bit of a conversation where she tells me if my dick wasn’t small she probably never would have fucked him. According to her he kept coming on that Friday night at a party and got hard and she could tell it was “ pretty big.”
Needless to say that was the last time we saw each other, a week or so later she called me telling me she may have gotten the clap from him. Stupidly I tried to get her back a month or so later and she would have nothing of it.
I had one friend that I told about what happened, everyone wanted know why we split. He probably told everyone but what he told me was that she probably wanted to break it off and that was a sure fire way to end it abruptly.

 

I WISHED I had your "problem" ! Lol. I've live with a micropenis (Google it) all my life. Quarter of in when flaccid; 4-5 in when erect. I'm fat too, so naked, I look like a pregnant woman. Lol. And now that I'm older, and the meds I take, add ED to the equation. But....i find solace that this is how God made me, and He don't make mistakes. Why did He do this ? Idk. No one knows but Him. I love being naked, and idc who laughs, points or stares. As far as women are concerned, I lost my last gf a year ago (They don't hang around long, as u can imagine) lol and I have finally give up on them, citing my worthlessness as the reason. I was married once, and have 2 grown kids, and 4 small grands. Like u said, I'm no longer wasting their time, or mine. No sir......u have no problem. Accept what the Lord gave u, use it with pride, and be thankful it works, and gets the job done. It could be worse.

 

A man walks into a brothel, asks the madam for a woman. She directs him to the second door on the left. He pays her and resumes to the door. Upon entering, he sees a woman lying naked on the bed, and drops his trousers. The woman laughs and says, " Who do u think you're gonna please with THAT little thing !" He replied, " ME, bitch ! Now lay back down !" That's what it all boils down to. Juss sayin....

 

That's why Greek statues have small genitalia. Back then, that was considered the norm. They thought big shlongs were unattractive, gross, nasty, etc.

 

Here's a classic example of how Internet myths can ruin men. The OP is nearly average yet he thinks he's too small based largely on what sounds like things he has read on forums (however, I did not read through the entire thread). This happens to the extent it is not uncommon for men to have above average penises and still feel insecure based on what they have read on the Net. The Net is overflowing with inflated penis sizes due to outright lies, exaggerations, here say, etc. I would be shocked if 5% of the claimed penis sizes so prevalent on these forums are true.

To the OP: From reading your posts, I'd say your self-esteem or lack of confidence is not entirely based on your perceived penis size, in my opinion. I'd guess it goes deeper than that, though what ever it is, it was no doubt worsened by girls laughing. People that would laugh at anothers genitalia are among the lowest of the low.

If you can afford it, I would suggest counseling. It may take you a while to find a good counselor that you click with but it will be worth it in the long haul.

Another thing you can do, if not already mentioned: Wear a penis sleeve. They will enhance your girth and length. Of course, given what I did read from you, that could have consequences for your mindset. If you see your woman enjoy it then it may reinforce the negative thoughts you're currently having. Then again, maybe not. You would be the one to know.

Best of luck to you.

 

Hello, I'm new here just wanted to throw my few pennies in.

I myself have a small penis too, as well as uncircumcised. When flaccid I'm barely making the inch mark. When hard I'm barely at 5 sometimes 6 If I'm measuring from the base right above the ballsack. It sucks in my opinion. Every girl I've ever had sex with never complained (except my sons mother who would tell me I had a small dick when we argued, but then proceeded to fuck me and suck me off and say it was "huge"), and they never told me otherwise. They were "satisfied" and I would believe them. For me it's all in my head. I look at porn everyday and envy these guys and even some of my friends who I have seen naked. But this is what I have and I make the best of it. Just today I sent a dick pic and she said and I quote, "that is small". It kills me everytime cause I imagine that to be the case anytime and everytime a woman sees my junk.

To the OP, we first have to accept our size. It sucks but we are men, MEN. We have to, otherwise we will always be depressed and never have pleasure besides our own hands. It's ok , I try to tell myself everyday that this is who I am and I will make DAMN SURE I do the BEST I can with the size I got.

I am still researching but I'm tryin to find ways on increasing girth and possibly length but it will cost ALOT of money I imagine. So unless we hit the jackpot on the lottery we MUST accept our size. So if anyone has a way to increase at least girth let us know!!!!

 

Are you kidding me? Did you not read my post above? Are you going to believe what you see or think you see on porn over that of bonafide medical statistics? Let me say it again. If you are 5-6", you are not small. You are average. And what if it was only 1/8" long when flaccid? Who cares! No one has sex with a flaccid dick any way. If you can get it up, and it reaches towards 6", as long as it's bigger around than your finger, you are in ok shape. Put that money you would spend on surgery in to counseling instead. And quit hanging around the type of women who would tell you your dick is small.

 

I agree with what you are saying, but it's a psychological problem whenever you drop your pants with a new girl and they see you hanging there with an inch long Johnson that grows into 5-6 in one. You can see either disappointment or ridicule. You're right about not hanging around women that feel that way. But WE have to live with that embarrassment for the rest of our lives. I know it not healthy to hold on to that, but it is the facts

 

Plenty of people, both male and female actually prefer smaller penises. 5-6" long, 4.5-5.5" girth is considered average in the US. There is plenty of variety out there though. As a bisexual male, I can tell you that I personally enjoy different sizes, shapes, thicknesses of penises. My first bf had a penis that was 4" long and I absolutely loved it. I loved him too. The size of his penis was never an issue. I do think it might have been an issue if he had a 10" penis though. Ouch!

 

Ok...so I posted myself soft just to show that small really can be small. I am smaller than average when erect but this is what am like 99.99% of the time.

I appreciate all good thoughts but sometimes it seems a bit forced an Pollyannic.

 

I too have a small one. At least I believe.

 

Had to show mine to the doctor today. I'm glad it was an older man. I have a tiny penis when flaccid, but I also suffer from SPS (Shrunken Penis Syndrome).
When I have to show it to someone for whatever reason it shrivels up even more and ends up looking like a pinky

I really hate it. I wish I was into SPH :'(

 

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Has it ever worked?

 

I am not interested in trying to make my cock bigger and its tiny,
Soft it's like under an inch and it is 3.5 inches hard. You are what you are, life is short and so what if your knob is too!

 

But when a drunk wife tells u u r small that doesn't help.

 

I would rather have a guy with a small dick, then too big. If I cant get my mouth around it and deep throat, then why bother

 

I'm disappointed