Living with a small penis

Discussion in 'Genitalia' started by Israel Regardie, Jul 7, 2013.

  1. I have a small dick. There I said it.
    I was born with it, obviously, and obviously it's not easy to live with.
    Most girls I have been with have been strangely nice and understanding about it, and all long-time girlfriends have feigned surprise that I call it small and claimed it is normal sized.
    I have always avoided one night stands on ethical principles - I dont want to waste a girls time with my useless equipment and would rather she went home with someone more well-hung. Besides, I don't want a drunk girl reacting honestly to the sight of my member. I'd probably have a nervous breakdown.
    The older I get the more I am comfortable with it though. I can't do anything about it anyway, and I'm aware most girls don't get orgasms "that" way.

    But I also understand that a girl probably wants to "feel" more during sex and probably like the idea of a big cock.

    I mean, no girl wants a small dick on a man. It's not what girls fantasize about. They might not think of it at all, but never would they fantasize about a tiny dick.

    Are there anyone out there in the same boat? Who has positive and negative experiences?
     
  2. Quiet Storm

    Quiet Storm Member

    I'm just curious, what size are you talking here?
    ...because your ex-girlfriends called it normal sized, I was thinking you are another one of those guys with 5 or 6 inches and call it small, which it's not, unless it is very thin.
    So you think your ex girlfriends just said that to pacify you?
     
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  3. Well, it's been a while since I dared measure it... But I seem to recall it was 4,9 inches. At the most, that is. So basically 4 inches. But maybe 1 inch flaccid (a "grower" of sorts)

    Yes, I'm convinced they said it to pacify me. To reassure my otherwise poor self-confidence and self-hatred. But being bi and having seen my fair share of naked men, I have never seen a penis as tiny as mine.
     
  4. desert-rat

    desert-rat Senior Member

    By the name you have chosen ( your nic.) I would guess you are in to new age ideas . You might want to use l.o.a. /creative visualization to make some changes , a bigger penis .
     
  5. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

    You might be surprised just how many girls out there actually feel the big ones are just too intimidating psychologically and uncomfortable physically.


    I don't have any negative experience with my five-incher. I mean, Quiet Storm is right in asking what your actual size is. If you're anywhere above four inches, then you should be fine. The average size is probably from four and a half inches to six and a half inches. The woman's G-spot isn't located that far inside the vagina. It's generally a couple inches in. So if you have a three inch penis(erect, obviously), technically you should be able to stimulate her G-spot.

    If you think my five inch penis is small, then I'll tell you living with it is fantastic. My SO is a virgin(actually, so am I) and I know I won't hurt her with my penis. I've shown my erection to a number of girls from different parts of the world, and they have all said very flattering things about it. And as with your case, they have all been surprised that I have referred to it as being "small". That has got to say something though, you know? Maybe it's all in your head.

    All the best.
     
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  6. I say: don't bother with those who can't appreciate what you have to offer.

    I'd be much more likely to enjoy the company of a man if he were able to stimulate my mind as much as he could stimulate my body. =)
     
  7. desert-rat

    desert-rat Senior Member

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  8. Yes, Regardie wrote "The One Year Manual to Spiritual Enlightenment" :)

    Yes, 5 inches in not micro-penis, true, but still small. And when there are guys with thick 7inchers out there, I'm not looking so good.

    I have showed my penis to some girls who HAVE laughed out loud... Not proud if that, but it has happened...
     
  9. desert-rat

    desert-rat Senior Member

    My point was is using that nic. you are in to new age ideas like l.o.a./creative visualization ect. Erin has some blogs on it and there is more on the net . http://www.erinpavlina.com/ also you may be hanging out with the wrong girls .
     
  10. I thought that the average size of a United States male's Johnson was five-and-a-half inches?

    A female's vagina is typically five-to-six inches deep.
     
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  11. Sure, but if a vagina can squeeze out a baby's head, I'd say the vagina is fairly flexible. And, surely, you don't want a nice fit like a glove, but something which "fills" you...?
     
  12. PhotoDude

    PhotoDude Member

    One of my friends has a VERY small penis (I've seen it) and has had ten times more sexual partners than I have. Don't let your size determine your confidence.
     
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  13. desert-rat

    desert-rat Senior Member

  14. That is simply a matter of personal preference.

    I still say that you shouldn't let it get to you. =)

    Peace
     
  15. HOW small? :p
    My gf says the best sex she ever had was with a guy with a even tinyer penis than mine (not her words), so, yeah.
    And like I said, it's not that much about penetration, and most women get more satisfaction orally and using fingers ("digitally"?).
    But, I mean in terms of "manlyness", the aesthetics and idea of it. Having your boyfriend having a big member that throbs for you and that is literally a mouthful... Not a tiny thing that makes a lot of positions impossible.
    I can't do that position where you spoon and then penetrate... You know that one? Impossible with my member. I wont reach...
     
  16. desert-rat

    desert-rat Senior Member

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  17. Yes, I love doggy. And luckily so does my girlfriend. But I have always felt guilty about doggy... So porn-like, so dominating.
    But, yeah.
     
  18. PhotoDude

    PhotoDude Member

    Maybe 2 inches.
     
  19. nz male

    nz male Senior Member

    I have been trying to increase the size of the girth of mine by wearing a slightly tighter fitting penis rings to make it stay harder for longer. I know it may or may not change it's size in the long term - but I do it for a challenge sometimes.
    I sometimes wear penis rings all night & soon know when I have an erection for longer than normal.
     
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  20. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

    OK, so I missed this post of yours, my apologies.

    Anyway, two things:

    One, how can a four POINT NINE inch penis, which is nearly a FIVE-incher, "basically" be FOUR inches? :confused: You could have even rounded up and said you had a FIVE inch penis, and it wouldn't have mattered much.........according to mathematics.

    Two, your issue is mainly psychological in my opinion. I really don't think you have a particularly small penis. You need to deal with your self esteem issue rather than worrying about your penis size.
     
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