Limited Nudism & Problem of Eerction

I love being nude. It's like complete freedom. As I am not a nudist, I get few opportunities to be nude. This is possible only when my wife and I are alone at home. But most of the times I get erection and then moving around with a rock hard raging erection, though welcome to have a quickie, does not help in staying nude for a long time. Any suggestions, guys?

 

The problem will go away once you are nude a lot more. Make sure you've not had too much to drink, alcoholic or non-alcoholic.

 

i had a similar problem when i started earlyer this year... the problem after a while just goes away and you can start controlling them a lot more.. like before i became a nudist a womens naked body would get me hard but now it doesnt the picture or actuall women has to be in a sexual way be4 i get hard... so just go about naked a bit more and it will just go away

 

its just something you have to work on

it takes time, and a while to get used to others being nude...

and remember that maybe its time to use the restroom. especially if you had been drinking a lot of fluids

 

I don't know what you mean by "not being a nudist". Perhaps you mean you don't belong to a club where you can practise social nudism? Basically, if you love being nude and you get nude whenever you can, you ARE a nudist, period.

And as others have said, the erection problem goes away as you get used to being naked around other people.

 

Thanks guys for your "cooling" words but tell me 'honestly' if you are at home alone or with your wife / girlfriend, would not you like to have an erection and keep it on?

 

A platonic male friend of mine who I've been to the nude beach with a few times keeps an erection for hours at a time. At first, when I didn't know him that well, I didn't know what to think of it, but he's able to act as if it's not a big deal. On one occasion, I arrived at his place to head to the nude beach and we rode there naked and he was hard the entire time. Then all day (or at least during the time he was within my sight), he was hard. Since we had to make a stop on the way home, we had our clothes on, so I wasn't so intent on checking and couldn't be sure. He's so cool & open about it and says it feels very liberating. He and I have talked about him setting his own record!
~ Tina

 

> Then all day .. he was hard

having an erection for such a long time may be a sign for being horny permanently (i hope so), but als may be a sign for some certain disease called priapism that finally leads to impotence. So if he feels any pain, he should see a doc.

 

I have erections occasionally while hanging out.. but it happens the most when the wife plays with it.. but its not a big deal, dont worry about it

 

You'll need to get over that erections thing before joining a social group or a nudist club, where wandering around with a woody will get you the proverbial spanking (actually, the boot!). But the more social contact you have with others who are nude, the less it will be a problem.

For the rest of us, a woody is no big deal in the evening, sleeping, or in the morning just up. My legs were sunburnt so ferociously last summer that I kept myself in the house nude, then worked on getting as many erections possible when in bed, just to keep the sheets off raw skin until the sensitivity died down.

 

Erections are not a 'problem,' they are SUPPOSED to occur. The REAL 'problem' is people's attitude to them and the fact that males are (falsely) caused to believe that they should only occur under certain circumstances and at certain times - which is a complete artificiality enforced by prudish, illogical, unaware anti-realists.

 

Pixy, He's definitely horny permanently. He knows it's platonic with me, yet it's been clear from the beginning that he's very attracted to me. I sometimes think he's terrorizing himself by doing this, but he makes it clear to me that he enjoys it.
~Tina

 

i think i agree with this

 

My family's nudist, and and my brother and even sometimes my dad gets a hard on when everybody's nude together. It's not a 'problem', it's just natural. You don't need to do anything about it, and you shouldn't try. Just relax and enjoy being you

 

IMO, it's OK to take a look, since it's natural thing to occur - but not like glueing your eyes to their maleness, saying things like "mmm, yummy!" or do wolf whistles.
:smilielol5:

Reacting like that guy would be over-reacting:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wbUpGoOjFWw"]YouTube- Hooowl!

OK, so much for a humorous answer - but the first part of my initial sentence was meant seriously. If your brother and Dad are at ease with being nude, they also know that an erection will occur at times, and if they are carefree and easy about it, not trying to hide it or (the other extreme) not flaunting it for all to see, it's OK to look at it and acknowledge it as something natural. If you think about the situation being vice-versa, how do they react when seeing you in the nude? Do they look away? Or do they react as nudists/naturists regularly do? Take a look, not gawk, and just be at ease with you and them being nude? That's just how things should be.

Wiggling happily nude toes,

~*Ganesha*~

 

Laying on a float in the pool nude yesterday on my back I was just enjoying the warm sun on my body, my mind drifted to the visual of me laying there, my wife was nude reading a magazine over on the chase lounge. Thinking about nothing sexual, just thinking about how nice it is we can enjoy nudity in our own yard.
Well, of course that caused me to get aroused, I got hard, bobbing with my heartbeat hard. Suprisingly though after about a minute it slowly went back down to flaccid, but anyone around would have noticed it.
Now, had my wife made a comment about it or had I given it the attention it obviously wanted I would have probably have stayed hard until some sort of relief, or by getting distracted in some way.
This happens to me all the time, but it's usually just her and I there nude. When friends come over we all wear suits.
But even when I've been at nude beaches I've never gotten hard around others. I've seen a few semi's around the beaches but no flagpoles.

So, based on all that I'd say when you do get one to just ignore it if possible, if it stays hard get distracted by talking, swimming, or anything if you want it to go down. Lay on your stomach for awhile if it bothers you.

My wife did make a comment later on when I got hard again for no apparent reason, she asked how I'd feel around other people like that. I told her since it seems to happen randomly I'd have no issue with it. If it wouldn't go down or made someone uncomfortable I'd get back in the pool or roll over. But for the most part I'd ignore it.
She said I'd be a little difficult to ignore since I'm somewhat over the average size. So now in a way I want to get hard in front of others to see what happens. I'll still ignore it and try to make it go down, but getting erect in front of others at least once would give me experience on how best to handle it if or when it happens again.

It is odd that we all view our own bodies as just normal to us while we view other peoples diffrerenty. I see my wifes pubic mound and exposed breast as totally hot when shes nude, while to her it's just her body. And since mens erections are out in front for all the see it's usually seen as sexual when ever you have one to those not accustomed to mixed company nudity.

Even flaccid I think men are looked at differently since we have an exposed organ.
Double standard I suppose, maybe it's because to some, women look better and less threatening nude than men do. Women look sensuous nude, while men can look sleasy.

 

I have been a nudist for so long that unless I am in a sexual situation or masterbating I hardly ever get an erection .Nudity is not a sexual thing when you have been a nudist most of your life ,even when nude on public footways out of town or driving naked unless I encourage my cock to get hard it will stay soft it takes alot to get me arroused without masterbation.

 

This is an issue I think is my main mental stepping stone on the way to total freedom. As soon as even the idea of someone seein' me in the nud comes up, there's a raising problem. I've tried loads of different mental and physical ways to stop it, but....it just doesn't work.

Guess I just have t'do what y'all recommend; Stick with it until it works...

 

When I was in college and for a short time afterwards I spent a lot of time late spring thru early fall at a clothing optional lake and I do not recall seeing large numbers of guys sporting erections in the area where people swam and sunbathed, etc. If you took a walk in the woods or fields you might see couples hand-in-hand and the guy might be anywhere from small and limp to full standing at attention erect and every stage in between. You would know that the erection was for the girl friend (and the activities they had in mind for as soon as they found a sufficiently secluded spot) and not for you. (Yes, there were lots of gay guys there and I've seen pairs of them where both had erections as they walked off into the woods. I could appreciate their masculine beauty without staring or being some kind of lust-chick.)

Sometimes friends would play games in the water -- especially one where you would pair up and play knights and horses, trying to push the other pairs to make them fall, and usually the girl would be the knight and the guy the horse and having naked women pressed against their backs would often produce erections on the guys -- and when we did switch to girls as horses and guys as knights, I would always smile at the feel of his boner pressed against my back even if he was just a friend and not a guy with whom I was in a sexual relationship.

Of course if you really got into walking out to shoulder deep water and making out and fooling around, often the poor guy would have to stay in the water until his erection relaxed before coming in to shore.

I don't think I'd care to walk along and see that there were fifty or sixty guys lying or sitting or standing near the water and every guy there was hard - that would feel creepy (except maybe in a porn movie) -- but to see a few random erections would not be a problem at all and would not bother me or offend me in any way. Any reasonable person knows that boners can happen randomly.

There have been times when I have been in the water and when I walked out of the water I've had a breeze hit my breasts and my nipples would suddenly get hard and that didn't mean I wanted to jump any random guy in sight, it's just something that happens.

 

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Very wise and true words, there, really. Considering the second part of the thread's title, I think there isn't a "problem of erection", but rather a problem of people dealing with it. An erection just is - it can happen.

The occurances of erections samanthawriter told us about are just the nice, natural, playful and innocent things (well, perhaps not so innocent thinking about the couples looking for a private spot...) that can be done in the nude and/or at a nude beach.

Reading that, I suddenly found myself thinking of a weird sight... a row of men standing at the waterfront, all fully erect, and one yelling "Now we start the boner ballet... 5.. 6...7...8..." and suddenly all of them begin bouncing simultaneously...


Just kidding. But, honestly, I think that samanthawriter has given one of the best answers on this matter so far. No, this isn't sucking up to anyone, it's my honest opinion!

Wiggling bare toes (and those only!),

~*Ganesha*~