My wife insists that the lights are off, but there is plenty of ambient light to see everything. I enjoy having the lights on, and I used to make her leave them on.
I always gotta have some lighting because I love what and who I'm looking at. Even at night if it's just the lamp on the night stand.
Very much prefer lights on although a TV or a hall light is fine. I have a particular desire to watch an orgasm and I really like watching my cock get sucked...disappearing into a mouth and re-appearing all slick and wet. Need the lights on for that and being in the right position helps. Two years ago a friend who was moving out of state asked me to help pack her stuff up. I got a blowjob in the parking garage from her just before I left and she let me take a couple of pics of her doing the deed. I love seeing those just as she pulls off of me or before she goes back on. They're not particularly sexy....she has her clothes on and she's just holding my dick to be sucked but it's the fact that I can see...both the angle and that it's daylight...that turns me on.
On! But in order: 1. Daytime with blinds open (bright!) 2. Lights on (bright) 3. Dim lighting 4. Dark…if I lose to my wife I don’t watch porn with the TV off. I like to look at what I’m doing. My wife is hot, I love the way sex looks.
I don't really have a preference but i will say there is a certain heightened pleasure to doing it in the dark especially with a new partner, there are certainly a few lights out times that stick in my mind
I know I've posted this elsewhere before but I'll post it again because at one time it was all I could get from my ex and it was so hot...My ex and I are in bed and lights are off and we're both naked we always slept this way). She and I used to have a routine that we would do every night before either of us could fall asleep (we even did this our last night together). She would lay on her side facing away from me and I would spoon her, my cock pressed against her butt crack, my hand on her tit, then cupping her pussy and back her tit. Once we were both relaxed I would roll over and she would hold my chest, right over my tit. After awhile she would wrap her hand around my cock which would almost always make me hard and want her very much. After awhile she would drift off to asleep. This ends our nightly routine. Some nights, however, I wouldn't be able able to shake off my horniness. My cock would be hard in her hand as she slept and it would feel amazing. Slowly, ever so slowly my cock would begin to pulse and throb, not with orgasm but little thrusts that would get me even more excited. The more they happened the more excited I got. The more excited I got the stronger the throbbing got. And the cycle repeated and built and built and repeated. The more excited I got I more I wanted to press my cock deeper into her hand and so I would. Some nights that would be it and she'd roll over and I'd be left very unsatisfied. Some night my breathing would deepen and my heart would race and I'd press my cock into her closed hand even more. My leg would start to shake and maybe even my body and yet she didn't seem to ever wake up, she'd just sleep with her had around my cock. Occasionally, very occasionally everything would fall into place, her hand would be in the exact right spot and cock would be in the spot and hard as a rock and my heart would be racing and my breathing would be so heavy. And I'd feel it...I'd be right on the edge, on the edge of an intense orgasm and it would last and I would be held there for what seemed liked hours. Just the perfect pressure, just the perfect amount of rubbing, just the perfect...RELEASE...and amazing orgasm. And I would pulse and shoot and cum all over the sheets and her hand, over and over again. After a few minutes she would roll over and continue her sleep and I would slowly drift away into my own sleep wishing for so much more but at the same time so glad I could cum in her hand once again.
My wife prefers light off if 2 cocks up to start with but won't rule out she will want to see them when she get horny.
My wife does not like to have lights on. But I love do with lights on. It is another dimension to enjoy sight of physical union of male and female bodies and the beauty.
It is a lovely description. Almost matches with my experience with my wife. We normally do this in the mornings. When I get a strong erection I get hold of my wife's hand and place it over my erect cock. With some pursuation she will give gentle strokes on and off. Some days she will take it to full climax. It is a very pleasurable experience especially my lovely wife gives me pleasure.
Some form of light on. I want to see everything.....eyes, movements, reactions, etc. Low light can really set a mood, but I'm good with a mid-day, bright blue sky also.
When we were sexually active my wife as she got older preferred lights off. I couldn't care either way