Lights On / Lights Off...

Candlelight is my usual fave, but I also agree with mynameiskc when she commented: "but when the lights are off, i can focus on the other great bits of sex: the feelings, the textures, sounds, etc. in a way that i can't when i'm being distracted by the visual."

This is so true for me as well.

 

which i have to concur with what is stated above. Lights turned off limits u to ur other senses to appriciate ur partner.

 

I still have all of my petals, but, I never thought of candlelight. I suppose lights off or candlelight would be a little more shocking yet intimate. Haha, you gotta wonder about pre-electricity times...

 

I prefer some lighting cause its nice when you are able to see the person and what you're doing, dont want to accidently be poked in the eye or something...

 

i couldnt have said it any better!
bright lights are not in for me. very low light indeed is better for my mood at the time.

 

AAAAHHHHH!! THAT WAS MY EYE BASTARD!

 

hmm. yep, I definitely like candlelight for some sensual ambience. Lights off creates some nice mystery, and like some others have said, allows you to be more aware of other "feelings" & sensations. Bright lights on is a bit much for my liking, however daylight is okay.

Seems like women in general like the romance of a dimly (sp?) lit room, whereas guys tend to like all the lights on, 'cause they're stimulated more by visuals.

 

It doesnt matter either way... On or off....

 

Candlelight

 

i'm a lights-on kinda girl...

but variety *is* the spice of life!

 

Lights on, because atm my partner is my hand. HAHAHAHAHAHA!

 

Candlelight for sure. Second choice, on, third choice, off, but I prefer to see what I am eating.....

 

Thats what mood lighting is for...geez.

 

Yeah, but mood lighting doesn't flicker. A candle is the best light to appreciate the feminine form and all of its features. My most treasured visual memory is of just one such feature, lit by a single candle, it was like seeing heaven....

 

Hmm, I'll have to remember that one. Next time hehe.

 

I prefer candlelight, but lights on works too.