So...my lover (I am newly divorced and hate using the term "boyfriend" at my age) was telling me only one woman has ever made him cum from a blow job. I took that as a personal challenge and have yet to succeed. I asked him what I could do to up my chances. He said, "Lick my taint." I have absolutely no issue with this except for the logistics of actually doing it. I just can't picture it in my head how that would go. Any help? Help me get a mental image so I know what I am doing when I see him tonight. Thanks!
Wow thats really nice of you... well you need to be sure to give constant stimulation to his penis while doing this (one hand), lift his balls with the other hand (use the other hand to lightly massage them and tug on them) and wellah you have gained access to his taint. Proceed to licking however he seems to like it. This can be done with him laying down and his legs parted, or you kneeling under him maybe even 69 depending on your respective body sizes/lengths. Good luck!
As you suck his cock go down to his balls. While you're there go further down lifting his balls a little and stretching out your tongue you just lick away. If he's standing just have his spread his legs a little and you'll just bend your neck back. BTW that's a great position to fill your mouth with his balls! It's a very dom/sub position. He'll love it! Even better if you get him on the edge of the sofa or bed easier access. Make sure in the beginning quickly go back to his cock and balls it will be so quick that you hit his taint he won't be able to react. Also stroke him while your licking the taint so that he's not only focused on that part. Each time doing it longer and he'll be yours! Have fun!
Throw him a curve ball and suck his taint too. Won't know what hit him. Lift his balls to access his taint. It's easier for you if he is lying down. Flicker your tongue over it, and go back to licking and sucking his balls and sack. Give him a decent handjob while you do this. This is not for those who can't walk and chew gum at once. After you've gone between sucking his dick , licking his balls, and taint a few times, drop the game-changer on his unsuspecting ass, and suck his taint gently. Press your open mouth to it, make a vacuum, and pulse the suction. Go back to blowing him. Next time you get to his taint, suck it and flick your tongue simultaneously. Just like you would try giving different sensations while you are fellating him, you should be trying to do that while you out your mouth anywhere on his body. One last thought- I have never encountered a man who let me play with his taint who wouldn't also let me rim his ass a little. Some full on let me talk them into taking a vibrator., but you really have to start with something that looks not even remotely phallic. Be prepared to hear sounds you didn't expectnhim to be able to make. Have fun!
Also called perineum. The real firecracker is its proximity to the prostate. So pressure in can be good, too.
As I always strongly encourage men to lick their women's anus (forget the cleaned and washed anus lick, that doesnt qualify as a true Analingus to me), I would also ask women to consider the same. Lick his anus and see how he will love you for it. (All fluid exchanging activities to be done with a safe partner ONLY, otherwise you are taking your own risk)
I'm not into "working things out". If you don't please me because you're not experienced, I simply move on. Oh, I forgot people are "IN LOVE" Oh gawd.