Letting Wife's Ex Fuck Her Again?

I have an open marriage so I've done this but my stories won't be as beneficial to you as both of you reading the book "The Ethical Slut". It covers things you could never think of.

I think it would be a mistake to do this without reading that book.

 

There was a lot more to the "affair" than her just going out and cheating. We had a separation for a while anyway I do see your consern but it's not really a concern of mine cuz there's more to the story than is written on here. I appreciate the input though thank you!

 

Ok thank you I would really just like more of an idea of what it'll be like.

 

You're talking sexual fantasy material now.

Forget that.

 

But it's more than a fantasy at this point. It's almost as though I've started to obsess over it she doesn't go see him very often but the last time she did I told her I wanted her to sleep with him. When she got back home later that night she told me she had not fucked him but they made out and there was a little bit of touching. She told me this and I instantly got turned on as did she telling me about it and we fucked right then, we had to have each other. It was great! Ever since the. They have t seen each other but I would live it if they did and actually went all the way.

 

I am kind of set on it yes but I'm more looking for both they have done it and loved it and have done it and regret it

 

hmmm... slight bump in the road of marriage six months in and she is right back fucking her ex.......
yeah, sounds like a reeeaaalll strong marriage ya got there.

 

Like I keep saying there is much more to the story..

 

Which one? Dossie Easton has cowritten two, both of which have titles beginning with "The Ethical Slut". They are:

The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures
by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy

The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities
by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt

Both are available on Amazon.

(Edit: I just learned that Catherine A. Liszt is/was a pen name for Janet W. Hardy., so both books have the same co-authors.)

(Edit #2: Actually, given that these books are both written by the same co-authors and are 12 years apart (2009 vs. 1997), I'm now wondering if they're not the same book!)

 

The one on Polyamory.

 

Also our marriage as gotten stronger and more communicative since the "affair"

 

So now that it’s been a few years my wife and I are still together and stronger than ever. Now with a family as well. We’ve never been more happy. Our sex life is amazing. For years we’ve put this fantasy on the back burner. Until a few weeks ago when things were getting hot and we were watching porn together. We started talking about things we fantasize about. She started with how she would like to be with another woman. (She’s fooled around with someone in the past but was way to drunk and barely remembers lol) anyway... I then told her I still think about her fucking her ex and inviting him in bed together, a few weeks later now. She as been talking with another woman (a mutual friend of ours that is bi) and today she has started talking with her ex again after years of nothing. We have been researching the “hotwife” lifestyle and we’re really into it. So at this point nothing has happened physically but we are both hoping to be fulfilling out fantasies together in the near future!

 

mmmm while I would love for mine to have sex with somebody, I would not choose the ex

 

I would hope that if she's uses it, she'd keep you informed.

 

We actually chose my Ex specifically because we just did not make a good couple. The sex with him was always amazing, but we just did not make a good match character-wise. For me it is a benefit already knowing the guy and knowing that he has a big cock and knows how to use it, and for my hubby it is a benefit knowing that there is no way I would go back to my Ex over him. Although, keep in mind in our case my Ex also quite enjoys knowing that I have sex with him while married to my hubby and this has sometimes led to some awkward moments.

 

Like what? He already knows about him doesn't he?
Is he present when you're with your ex? Or does he prefer to hear about it afterwards?

 

If your willing to let her have sex with her ex, then it's only reasonable she let you have pictures and videos. It's a two way street.

 

My wife has always been free to have sex with anyone, as long as she tells me about it. That included exes. Only one ex approached her, and she turned him down.