Letting my boyfriend fuck some random chick

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by Flannelwearin'gal, Oct 10, 2008.

  1. WanderingSoul

    WanderingSoul Free

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    ^ That's actually a good idea.
     
  2. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    Right. There is something weird going on here. :(

    It is also noteworthy that virginity is some kind of status goal, rather than something that just happens spontaenously because she's not yet ready.

    There is also a gender dynamic at work here, since boys GAIN in social status by losing their virginity.

    That's the trouble with attributing value-judgements to virginity and sex. [​IMG]
     
  3. Cate8

    Cate8 Senior Member

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    youre smart.
     
  4. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    Another bit of sound advice from undies. :cheers2:
     
  5. Flannelwearin'gal

    Flannelwearin'gal .robert.johnson.fan.

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    Well, I kinda really want him to because I don't think I wanna date him anymore. I kinda like a bunch of other people
     
  6. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    Well, then, I think you already know your answer.
     
  7. Cate8

    Cate8 Senior Member

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    theeeeeere we go. and the last piece of the puzzle is put into place.

    what happened to you totally love him?

    do yourselves a favour, and just cut the relationship ties. its only fair. be honest.
     
  8. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    Bingo!

    That's what all of this was sounding like to me.

    BE HONEST WITH THE POOR GUY!
     
  9. zilla939

    zilla939 Thought Police Lifetime Supporter

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    yup, i remember now. this is the guy you are pity-dating and don't have the balls to break up with. you really should dump him and quit leading him on.
     
  10. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    You man-eating heartcrusher! :mad:
     
  11. zilla939

    zilla939 Thought Police Lifetime Supporter

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    nooo, she posted a thread about this guy nick and the guy she really likes, sharkboy, a while back.... i'm really a nice girl :p
     
  12. babyhellfire

    babyhellfire Banned

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    Well if praxis,zilla cate and KR all agree It must be good advice. Dump him,quit leading him on.Hope he gets some from the next girl
     
  13. *°GhOsT°LyRiC°*

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    yeah, i read through the thread, you dont even really want to date him? dump the guy.
     
  14. veroness

    veroness There's only one :)

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    have you tried meeting other guys who have the same goals as you? maybe if you met someone who wants to wait to have sex, then your more likly to have a better relationship. if your boyfriend really loves you, he will wait.
     
  15. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Why would you let your guy fuck someone else?

    I mean, what's your rationalization on that?
     
  16. Flannelwearin'gal

    Flannelwearin'gal .robert.johnson.fan.

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    I do love him, just not romantically.
    I don't know man. He's a great kid, I feel safe with him, I don't want to break up with him again just to possible date some other people. Iono. I think I might just be crazy.
     
  17. Flannelwearin'gal

    Flannelwearin'gal .robert.johnson.fan.

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    I don't want him to get totally pissed off cause I wont give him any.
     
  18. MaryJBlaze

    MaryJBlaze eleven

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    u

    crazy...possibly....
    most likely it's the fact that you're 15 and have a lot of adventures to go on before you settle down and commit yourself to one person.

    If you don't love him romantically than you're wasting both your and his time.
    Learn to be comfortable by yourself before looking for safety in another person....

    .
     
  19. Aristartle

    Aristartle Snow Falling on Cedars Lifetime Supporter

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    Hahahaha. That's something you can't control. It would be nice if we could control other people's reactions to our decisions, but that's not how life works my dear.

    I think you should be happy that you won't have sex until you know that you're ready. It's a smarter choice than what most of your peers are doing.
     
  20. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    There is love which isn't romantic. It's called friendship. :)

    But in all seriousness, flannel- do you feel he loves you in the same way you love him? I am not getting that from your posts.

    Unrequited love is not love, it's dependency. :(
     
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