fricknfrack, your post will be ignored. I only take advice from people to are mature enough not to swear at me and respect my decisions even if it isn't what they themselves would do. And my decisions are: No, I will not get HER spayed yet. And, yes, I will let HER outside. I already have actually and she's a lot happier. Also, you obviously didn't read my posts very well or you would know that my cat is a girl.
I do not let my cat out. I have alot of open windows and a big window on my back door but so she can lay in the sun but i never let her out.
i have never let my cats go outside. they are very happy indoors and have never tried to get out. too many risks out there, cars, diseases, fights, CARS. too much. get her her shots and fixed before letting her out. but i do suggest you keep her in. I know thats not everyones choice (as a neighbourhood cat is meowing outside my window) but for me, its the safest thing to keep a cat indoors.