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Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by DrRainbow, Jun 6, 2020.

  1. fitzgarabaldi

    fitzgarabaldi jolly swagman

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    whic decade are ya talkin about?
     
  2. Vladimir Illich

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    A few weeks ago - around Sydney !!!
     
  3. Candy Gal

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    Diana Ross at the 02 in London tonight
     
  4. soulcompromise

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    not getting married

    My fiance and I have downgraded...

    She was signaling that she's busy for awhile. She couldn't talk as much as usual, and I knew even though it was true that something had to be wrong. I was going crazy.

    When we finally got back to talking normally, I asked her and she told me, "my father won't go along".

    In her family, her father makes every decision, and if he won't let her it's very threatening to their family for me to continue advancing to marriage. She didn't want to elope, and I agreed.

    So, last night (her night time, my morning) we broke up... Almost immediately I began trying to think of ways to get her back and began sending emails.

    Finally, I got the idea that we don't need to get married because it would break his heart for her to immigrate.

    Instead, we will stay together as a less formally devoted couple. I'm still happy, and honestly relieved not to be the enemy. I didn't want to do anything without the blessing of the father, but I wanted her to come.

    The hard part is that she won't immigrate, but the good part is I'm not a villain. I will stay with her, and then if she wants to later we can get engaged; this time with her father informed.
     
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  5. Vladimir Illich

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    Hmmm - just a thought matey, but is her father in good health ??? Is he forward thinking that if he let his daughter emigrate, there would be no-one to look after him in his dotage.
     
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  6. fitzgarabaldi

    fitzgarabaldi jolly swagman

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    P Mc not flagged by the main media for sure
     
  7. Candy Gal

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    Sad to read that Soul.
    But be resolute with your heart. X
     
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  8. Candy Gal

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    It is Frixday a day of love and kisses. Xxx
     
  9. fitzgarabaldi

    fitzgarabaldi jolly swagman

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    seems the same as any other friday to me! - take ya clothes off - put ya clothes on etc etc??
     
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  10. Candy Gal

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    Cheer up you xxx
     
  11. scratcho

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    It's a beautiful day in Oregon. This time of the year makes the dreary , rainy winters a distant memory. :)
     
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  12. fitzgarabaldi

    fitzgarabaldi jolly swagman

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    despiring of the world and all that's in it atm - and why not = human nature at it's worst show cased for us all - fighting and killing and forget about the women and children - ideologies spewing out across the globes - maybe the end times are here!!
     
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  13. scratcho

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    Agreed. It all seems so stupid.
     
  14. Candy Gal

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    It is cloudy and rainy here. But I have wine. xxx
     
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  15. Candy Gal

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    I hope not.
     
  16. scratcho

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    That helps!:)
     
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  17. Candy Gal

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    You always make me smile xxx
     
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  18. fitzgarabaldi

    fitzgarabaldi jolly swagman

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    I am just watching the death presumably of a forum - a rather spooky and surreal thing to experience - you may recall Murgatroyds CG ? - the forum owner reported feeling seriously ill a few weeks back having been in hospital recently - several members of disappeared over recent months but now none responding - wow that feels weird. However when forum are concerned I think they are the dinosaurs of the internent and soon for extinction??
     
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  19. fitzgarabaldi

    fitzgarabaldi jolly swagman

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    these were the best days UJ was there and pugs - this place was on fire - we couldn't keep people out!!

    Candy bar
     
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    Yeah I remember that
     

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