not getting married My fiance and I have downgraded... She was signaling that she's busy for awhile. She couldn't talk as much as usual, and I knew even though it was true that something had to be wrong. I was going crazy. When we finally got back to talking normally, I asked her and she told me, "my father won't go along". In her family, her father makes every decision, and if he won't let her it's very threatening to their family for me to continue advancing to marriage. She didn't want to elope, and I agreed. So, last night (her night time, my morning) we broke up... Almost immediately I began trying to think of ways to get her back and began sending emails. Finally, I got the idea that we don't need to get married because it would break his heart for her to immigrate. Instead, we will stay together as a less formally devoted couple. I'm still happy, and honestly relieved not to be the enemy. I didn't want to do anything without the blessing of the father, but I wanted her to come. The hard part is that she won't immigrate, but the good part is I'm not a villain. I will stay with her, and then if she wants to later we can get engaged; this time with her father informed.
Hmmm - just a thought matey, but is her father in good health ??? Is he forward thinking that if he let his daughter emigrate, there would be no-one to look after him in his dotage.
It's a beautiful day in Oregon. This time of the year makes the dreary , rainy winters a distant memory.
despiring of the world and all that's in it atm - and why not = human nature at it's worst show cased for us all - fighting and killing and forget about the women and children - ideologies spewing out across the globes - maybe the end times are here!!
I am just watching the death presumably of a forum - a rather spooky and surreal thing to experience - you may recall Murgatroyds CG ? - the forum owner reported feeling seriously ill a few weeks back having been in hospital recently - several members of disappeared over recent months but now none responding - wow that feels weird. However when forum are concerned I think they are the dinosaurs of the internent and soon for extinction??
these were the best days UJ was there and pugs - this place was on fire - we couldn't keep people out!! Candy bar