lets talk about....

deep conversations for hours with who??????
I do sometimes talk to myself..but so far not a complete conversation.

I hate any person who randomly approaches me...and especially with something so retarded. If you wanna bother me for a smoke or the time okay...but leave me alone otherwise
I also have a distaste for servers who want to carry on conversations while I am eating. Do you really want me to tell you all of my childrens names with a mouthful of spaghetti really

 

im going to beddddddd, i have a fun day at college tomorrow. it will include fitting a gas cooker. fun. niiiight xx

 

man the best dinner out i ever had (and was on a date with my ex) the server sat down with us talking 1/2 the time we wrre there it was wonderful we had the best time



but only came on to ask what the hell im doing wrong here trying to get decent macro shots to once and for all settle this dammage/no dammage debate and cant get 1 to come pit clear enough think ill hafta try more later..
prolly cause the macro thingy is in metric and i dont speak no metric..

actualy nevermind sis just got here & she knows her photography and has a far better camera....

 

ayejajajaja, we are so the same! I spent months listening to that soundtrack. My favourite is the one when she's cutting all her hair off, even writing about this and thinking of it is making my heart surge^.^
and no I didn't know she painted them?! I am totally in awe here, they were amazing! They couldn't have found a better Frieda. Her story w Diego is so sad though, he's an ass.
jajaja, I am excited for my gift! I will start making yours in a few days. I've been painting for this art fare I have at the end of the month so am pretty busy creativly. But I just love the gift idea, so I couldn't say no

 

thank you for adding to the randomness
and thiose are words to live by.

o do get blunt i do get harsh and say things stronly, but thats pretty much come from having to alot.
i deal with a hell of alotta really heavy situations even alotta life and death ones
mostly tons and tons of minor things but at times things when u got 1 second to make a extrenely blunt strong point or have a catastrophy or death
and often no matterr how strongly bluntly and totaly hionnestly u sday things itsstill not quite enough to get the point across
especialy with ppl with very negative viewpoints or attitudes they get so stuck in those negative thoughgt patterns that its really hard to snap em out of it.

sometimes u just gotta tell ppl the truth..in theyre face and real tell im if they dont straighten theyre shit out they could lose everything
harsh rreality
but with the kindnes also to care enough to help em figure it all out.
i kinda also treat everyone like a freind
and sometimes to be a freind ya gotta care more biout the freind then thge freindship, risk the freindship to help the freind
it can mean saying swomething that might upset em but is meant to help em..
just when the situations are serius it has to be intence4....has to be really real..and has to mnake emthink..
it prolly carries over to less then serius shit..

 

Okay....but dreadlocks are not life or death situations, so your agressive and blunt ways are not needed here.
We all deal with alot in our lives, but that is no reason to some across so rude on the forums.

 

way for this thread to explode overnight and while i was at work.

LAWL. the exact same thing could be said about the strong defense taken by some suspected/accused cult leaders. or anyone who denies something to the point that it hurts to read or listen b/c of how tediously ridiculous it is.

btw: OBVIOUS. do you say "odvious" irl? b/c you spell it that way every time.

yeah, if someone came up to me randomly in public and asked me a personal question that i dont even like talking about to my friends (like am i truly happy and why/why not), chances are i would think they were a drug addict and would just avoid that person.
because yeah, when youre walking around in vancouver, that actually happens all the time: people coming up to you and talking or being weird or just asking for money. im always polite and sometimes talk to people randomly and always give money if i have it and they arent being rude to me.
but i am not a social person and i am very private about my feelings.

i am happy, truly happy and have been for most of my life, but why the fuck would that be your business? what right do you have to ask me that and expect a candid response?


btw brayingdonkey: you rock every post youve made so far has either mad me lol or nod my head in agreement.

sooo true.

soaringeagle, you come off as a huge dick and are really intolerant of any methods or opinions other than your own.

 

dicki huh? have i ever called u a bitch? your just as opinionated stuburn and agressinve dont ya see that?
but i dont ressort to name calling accusations and stupidity attempts to make u look bad now do i?
hmmm

and btw, cluts must have a religios base with the leader elevated to the level of saint or god..im feircky agnostic at best
so how would that work? there probly isnt a giod so worship whoecvers got the longer dreasds i dont know..im baffled
also cult leaders are very rich they get all kinds of monety given to em, i live on next to nothing

finaly i am tolerant of all methinds but want to give educated info 1st they are welcome to make any other choices ofciourse but am i gonna pretend wax isnt bad or backcombing doesnt do dammage when it so odviosly isnt tyrue ofcourse im going to give them every bit of truth i can and let them make theyre own choices
but because my favorire medigffers then yours yact like a bitch (or dick) exactky as ya accuse me of

you also admit to being pretty antisocial (both of yas) maybe thats the whole problem after all?
concversations that arent just "yea your right" are too challenging?

 

educated info? you mean shit you make up. you have no experience with backcombing but you feel justified in condemning it? wtf.
ive never heard anyone but you say backcombing damaged their hair. and it didnt damage mine. that seems like a much more informed and educated position.
and i dont tell people what method to use or say "ur doin it wrong" when all theyre doing is using the best method for them.

lmao. so because i dont feel comfortable and just plain dont feel the need to open up to people or talk about myself means that im agressive and looking for a fight?
you think you have the right to pass judgement on my thoughts and mental state? fuck that.
im not a passive person, i can speak up and speak out if i want to.

bottom line: i respect that you have a different opinion than me and i have absolutely no problem with your right to express it, just as i express mine.
but when people (and by people i mean you, b/c no one else does it) push their opinion, which isnt even based on personal experience half the time, on the new members who might not know anything about dreads and really only want simple, informed advice on how to make dreadlocks work for them... it just pisses me off. not only that, but to also put down other peoples experiences and advice or to write it off as lies is just being a dick.

maybe if you paid attention youd see that im not the only one who thinks so.
maybe you should try to examine your behavior if you want to continue to be listened to and accepted.

 

Scatteredleaves, I couldn't have put it any better myself

I do have alot of things to say about this matter, but my mind is having trouble organising it all so I'll stay out of it xD And I don't want to personally attack anyone, I don't like people not liking me 0.o (not that I would, I'm just so afraid of insulting anyone xD)

*Crawls back under duvet*

 

I may be anti-social, but I know how to treat people with respect and how to have a two-sided conversation with people that disagree with what I'm saying.

I'm a very blunt person in RL, but only with my close friends and loved ones. Most people don't appreciate it if you don't know them well. As this is a public forum, I try to keep my blunt responses to a minimum, to avoid offending people here.

 

see? see?
lawl jk

yeah, sometimes i wish i could keep my mouth shut... but most of the time not haha.
i feel the need to object to some stuff in the interests of new members... but if its like no one agrees with me, then i question my judgment and go away.
anyway thanks. little bits of support are what keep me posting here.

 

exactly. I don't know how you keep justifying yourself SE. I am soo sick and tired of seeing in every thread I go into a 3/4 page argument consisting of you (it's always you) and some other poor soul.
oh but no no no, it's always them-never you right?
Everybody seems to be sick and tired of it! You put people down and piss people off everyday! A lot of the time it's aimed at men too. You may not call people names but you just don't seem to have respect for any ideas but your own! Your not always right SE and you don't know everything about dreads, just your experience.
I am sick of seeing you write the same thing over and over too. I liked you when I first came on these forums as you give off a good first impression but as times went on I started to lose respect for you. You just come across as rude, mean and like your making stuff up as you go along to look good.
I come on here, to chat to my friends and have fun talking about random crap and looking at peoples pictures, but you have given the place a realli moody weighed down aura (if forums have auras lol) you take so many things the completely wrong way and go on and on about things a lot of the time making NO sense. And thats not only because of your kerbnoard diufficvulies (which gets soo annoying to read) you just spout off without thinking most of the time it seems!
I've tried to be nice saying these things but I wonder will we ever get through to you???

 

So I'm not the only one shaking their heads at SE's posts, muttering under their breath, wishing that he'd just leave it alone?
Good, I thought I was just being bitchy.

 

http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&...t&cd=1&q=damage+caused+by+backcombing&spell=1
every single 1 including the wiki one says backcoming causes dammage even serius dammage
do i nred to dammage mine to say that? no i can just compare mine to yours
yours is very visible
theres aklnmost none in mine

hnmmm wonder why

not looking for a fight dont call someone as dick
i dont call u a bitch do i?

again your using that word andyup acting like what i necver call ya but if youd like i will..not my styler but if u insist

what do i give em sipmle advice
to get dreads ya dont gotta do a thing, its the best way and lesast dammaging (faxct) or you can backcomb do some dammage it will maybe unravel maybe not and will still dread
or u can twuist n rip do less dammage look good might hurt a bit but isnt s bad choice
u can palm roll, its mostloy a waste of time makes em look more borinmg and can do dammage (fact again google it yourself)
or u can do asny of those and use wax and probluy end up sticky stigff and feeling gross (almost every1 heree who waxed said it felt gross)

i gave complicated advice to be complete'
the simplest advice being just staopp combung
but you come in every time and say no, just backcomb, even telling ppl with hair past theyre knees to cut 1./2 off to make it easirer to backcomb
now whos pushing only 1 method?
i am fair but truthfull to all, only times i said flat out its being done wriong was with glue.
i do say some ways are better then others
no matter what the subject 1 way will be better then the rest
skydiving is better if u use a parachute then an unbrela
you'll eventualy land on the ground either way so both are legit ways to get from airplanede to ground but 1 way is mucvh better.
i encourage ppl to try natural but dont discourage them from backcombung if they choose to
i just make sure they are aware of all info i dont lie and say its safe
your dfreads are covered with the evidence of hair yanked out at the roots hundfrewds and u say its normal even tho i got none visible

lotta ppl jump on bandwagons
dont really care

 

Wow....you really don't care if we are all getting tired of your endless rants and confusing tangents? You don't care that you are offending people with your rude, blunt tactics?

Harsh....

 

Thing is though SE it isn't just advice, it offends some people, its as if you are the only one that is allowed to give it because you've had so much experience blahblahblah.

So what I wanted to backcomb my hair? I don't give a shite about if its damaged, it isn't going to fall out just because I've backcombed it a bit... As I've said before, I chose backcombing for personal reasons blahblahlbah xD

I totally agree with you lux. SE, I'm sorry but I get so fustrated with the typos and sentances that barely make any sense I just don't bother reading your posts... I find it is repeatitive and I don't feel informed after I read one, like with anyone else's posts, I just sorta.. Meh xD

I shan't say any more

*Zip*

 

Wow, I didn't mean to be a catalyst for shit hitting the fan but it sounds like you folks needed one. I can't believe such a tiny thing turned into such a huge deal. Lovin' you all for your support.

 

well i dont really need none of yas
still like some of yas but whatever
bye
have fun
yas kinda make things really suck for me anyway