Let my wife have a boyfriend

So, I let my wife have a boyfriend and my best friend is who she wanted to be her boyfriend. We have had threesome sex a few times before, but it is now more than just sexual. I wanted her to be able to have herself a boyfriend she could go do things alone with like go on dates and stuff. I gave them permission to have sex without me as well. I’m really cool with it. My friend was a little shocked when we said this was all ok, but he’s really happy. I just started working a 3rd shift job and I don’t want my wife to be lonely at night. So I’m really happy for the both of them and I still have a wife that loves me at the end of the day.

Is there anyone else in this type of situation? I’m curious to know other experiences.

 

I like it! I have gone on vacation with our friend .

 

Damn I need friends like this

 

As far as my situation, my buddy and I usually just share his wife together. He has has let me have his wife a couple of times without him being around though but we haven’t gone on dates or hung out outside of a sexual setting. The first time was on my birthday a couple years ago. I was off that day and as a “gift” he told me to come over and have my way with his wife while he was at work. The other time was when he was out of town on business and told me it was cool if I came over to keep her company while he was gone. His only stipulation for both times was that we took pictures to send to him.

 

I wouldn't say I'm in the same situation, however I have been talking to my gf about letting her see her ex whenever she wants to. She loves the idea but is scared. No pressure though, I do keep reassuring her I'm not going anywhere. Quick question, how did you approach your best friend about it?

 

It sounds to me your wife has formed not just a sexual attraction but now an emotional attraction with him...unfortunately it may not end well for you as you may find yourself on the outside looking in.

 

My wife also has a long-term boyfriend, though it's definitely not something "I just let happen". Her history with him actually runs longer than her history with me (

 

Man, be careful. I did this with my ex wife (we split for other reasons). She had a BF for about 6 months.....met up about once a week, and always without me. One night after a few months she came home and we're having reclaimation sex, and she blurts out "I think I'm falling in love with him!" OH SHIT! What have I done? I said I wanted her to stop seeing him. She agreed, but she didn't. Kept seeing him when I was on the road. The only reason it stopped was he knew she had developed feelings for him, and it was something that he didn't want, so he dumped her. You'd have thought my wife was going through a divorce with this guy! It crushed her, and emotionally she went down hill. It might have turned out better if we'd had MFMs, but he refused. Guess they were cucking me. Glad to be rid of her.

 

Lucky you to have this kind of friend and his wife who enjoys being with you. On the opposite side, my wife did the same some years ago when she was traveling. She told in fort of me to a female friend of us to drop by anytime while she was out to have a conversation, dinner or drinks with me (it was implicit: "you have permission to fuck with my husband if you want"). We got along a lot. But friend wouldn't show up. I think it was out of respect for my wife.

 

My wife and I have been married over 10 years. She has had 3 bf’s. Her current bf she’s been with about a year and a half. In the beginning, she would have sex with him very often. Like every day for about 4 straight months. She says, “I gotta break in that new dick.” A year and a half later, they have sex like 2-4 times a week. She works during the day and I work third shift and don’t get home till 5am. He stays with her at our house while I work.

Most of the time they have sex while I’m at work. She knows I love to watch or walk in on it so she will make it so they are doing it when I walk in.

 

Would not mind my wife having a sexual affair but if it is a love affair then she needs to be with a man she loves and not married to someone who just pays her bills

 

Love the idea of my wife having a boyfriend that she can fuck while I’m at work or when she wants to go out on a date . Would be a huge turn on to have this be steady as it was always a turn on when she would meet some of our play friends to suck their cocks when they were horny

 

My wife is free to have sex with anyone, with the exception of our friends. I have seen too many times when sex between married friends led to lost friendships. So all of her outside sex was with men who were outside our circle of friends. I'm glad your situation worked for you.

 

Our first threesome was with an ex boyfriend and my husband. I felt comfortable with him. My husband let us spend time together, usually he would take the kids someplace and Mt friend and I would have the house. Or, we would go to a park and workout, then sneak off and have some fun. However, it didn't take long for him to remind me why he was an ex boyfriend.

 

Agreed. Probably a common occurrence in situations like this.

 

I let my wife have 6 boyfriends ranging in size for 1.5"dia to 3"dia.

She could have real fwb's if she wanted, but she doesn't I guess.

 

id let my wife have a boyfriend no problem if she didnt mind me having other GF's and Bf's

 

That's the problem. My wives had no problem having a BF. HOWEVER, they didn't want me having anything to do with another woman. SUCKS the double edged sword.

 

That’s beautiful. You’re a good husband

My wife also has a boyfriend and it’s been great. He’s an old Army buddy of mine and great friend who I trust.

He started as my wife’s Bull. Basically how it started was that I wanted to improve sex for my wife. I’m on the smaller side down there and I knew my friend was swinging a hammer and quite the ladies man. He knows his way around a woman’s body and has lots of experience. So we brought the idea of having a 3some with him and he was with it.

They regularly have sex when I’m not there or he’ll stay for a weekend when I’m on a business trip and I’m 100% okay with it. I love my wife and love how happy sex with her boyfriend makes her. Also, it’s a sense of comfort that she’s not alone while I’m away.

Recently my wife and I have had our second child and it’s clear to everyone that it’s her boyfriend’s kid. So keep in mind this is a risk you will take. But all 3 parties are happy and have accepted the circumstances. I knew the chances of my wife getting impregnated by her bull was always there.

Thanks for sharing your story. Do what’s good for you two. As long as you’re both happy and it’s all coming from a place of love

 

My story is quite the opposite. I was the boyfriend or really just a fuck buddy. Met a woman who was 59 at the time. We hooked up all the while her husband knew she was fucking me. He was a few years younger than she. I was a few years older. Our affair lasted just shy of three years. It ended when he took a position elsewhere and the distance separated us.