Less sensitivity in penis with age?

I'm in my early 50s, healthy and fit. Something I've noticed in the last 1 to 1.5 years though is that I have a less sensitive penis. Sex still feels great!!! However, it went from feeling like I could cum within a few seconds (if I wanted to) after entering my wife to being able to last all night. And masturbating feels so different now that I have no desire.

Again, sex still feels fantastic! It's just that my penis head isn't as sensitive. It's kinda analogous to the difference between having a thick condom on versus no condom at all.

Any other aging guys here experience this?

 

It could be a symptom of low T? But also I use a penile moisturizer daily that also helps improve/maintain sensitivity. I'm the same age as you and mine is pretty dang sensitive. Feel free to DM me if you want info on the moisturizer.

 

Tarp,
Good Question. I am in my 60’s. My wife and I are still very sexually active. That said, I think it’s a age thing. Just like you, I went through a period of time when I could fuck a very long time. And then the occasional quickly. The intensity is still there so don’t be to concerned. You know sex is mental as well. There are a lot of men that would love to have your concerns. At least, lucky for us, we have no ED problems. The volume of my cum has diminished but my orgasm is still healthy. Maybe you should talk to your wife and make some small adjustments. My wife is always game for change up.

 

I think it is an age thing. I don't feel as much when fucking but I'm still very sensitive in a mouth. It used to be a struggle to hold back no matter where I put it. Now I sometimes can't keep it solid in a pussy although an ass does just fine. I'm still wanting to let go early in a good mouth and no matter how I orgasm, that fat head is just so sensitive that it almost hurts. That hasn't changed with age and a swirling tongue as I finish releasing will drive me nuts.

 

I'm 63 and still fairly sensitive. I was never able to last long unless I jacked off first before going to the girlfriends house. I blow my load in less than a minute or so. Even today. So if I know I'm about to have sex I jack off shortly beforehand to desensitize myself.

 

I am in my late 60s. My penis sensitivity wise remains same. But I can conntroll my ejaculations much better than when I was younger. Now days I can keep inside my wife's for 30-45 minutes without ejaculating. But if I want I also can cum in 5 minutes.

 

No doubt overall health and stress are a big factor. Starting in my late 50’s and progressing to 70 now, it has become really difficult. Although we don’t have vaginal or oral any more, fortunately my patient and loving wife and I can still enjoy each other. It just takes a lot more effort for me to reach orgasm.

 

I’m in my 50’s and I don’t notice any decrease in sensitivity, but I do notice I last longer (which might be related I don’t know). When we fuck, I can go for 20 to 40 minutes which is great though my wife would rather it be more like 15 mins of actual penetration. But she also knows what to do to get me to cum quicker. I feel as sensitive as I ever did.

 

Whats the trick to make you cum quicker? It is always nice to have a prolonged penetration because it allows to enjoy each others intimate sexually charged contact for a long period.

 

Sure it's nice to have prolonged penetration and many times we do, otter times a quickie is nice, sometimes in between is great.
There are two things she can do to make me cum quicker
1. She talks incredibly dirty
2. For oral, she takes the head of my cock in her mouth and sucks on it hard.
Both of these things get to me and have the effect of making me cum quicker (your milage may vary)

 

Wouldn't mind exchanging PMs with you, Tarp. I've had similar experiences lately. Takes "forever" for me to finish. Doesn't matter if I'm penetrating my wife or masturbating. Haven't done much research. Wasn't sure where to begin. Thought maybe it was a lack of arousal (don't tell my wife! ), but not so sure now. Buddy of mine says it's because I'm using it too much. LOL!

BTW ... I'm in my early 50's.

 

"...can control my ejaculations much better than when I was younger. Now days I can keep inside my wife's for 30-45 minutes without ejaculating. But if I want I also can cum in 5 minutes..."

I'm exactly the opposite. In youth and middle age I was occupying them down there for 30-45 min. Now, penetration is out (dammit) but 30 sec after my wife's soft mouth hits me, and her tongue starts moving, I have to tell her to either stop for a minute or be ready for the delivery. Even having a solo is over quickly. Rats! Where's the fun in that?

 

Wyoming, you could be overthinking it. If you're subconciously distracting yourself mentally (and easy to do without realizing it) by being concerned that could, at your age, be the cause. Our brain is our largest and most influential sex organ. Just my 2 cents.

 

73 and been on my own for a while now so masturbation is all I have, penis sensation is the same now as when I was younger, sometimes I can cum in a minute sometimes I can take ages to cum, I still masturbate at least twice a day sometimes more, I don't shoot as much now, usually just oozes out, sometimes I can cum without touching simply by imagination, my brain seems to decide when I ejaculate,

 

In my late 40's and sensitivity has been decreasing for me. Finding I can go much, much longer than just a year or two ago. Sometimes when she plants her mouth on me, it's just right and I could go quickly, but I just have her stop for half a minute or so, and I'm good for quite a long time. No ED or anything like that. Still get as hard as a school boy. But my staying power has greatly increased.

Maybe it's just being used to my wife? Not sure. My guess is if I were with another woman, it might be harder to last longer.

 

It is better to last longer. Normally females take longer to climax and it is important male partner should lasts until she climaxes.

 

Even if she doesn't get an orgasm (60+ percent can't with just penile), most women I've known would rather it go on awhile than have a 2 minutes-and-done. If they're aroused and looking forward to it, to have it over that quickly is not fun.

 

52yrs here. I'm defintely not less sensitive at the tip/head ring. It has been the same for at least a couple decades. That's an interesting question you have posed. Have you tried abstaining from everything for a "longish" period of time to see if anything changes?

 

Thanks for the replies, everyone. I may be wrong but, in my case, I suspect it may just be aging. That said, like someone else mentioned or alluded to, I also believe this is tied to the conditioning of being with the same person for so long. My wife and I have been monogamous for 36 years! She's still super sexy, fit, and all that. But, I'd bet the excitement of entering a different woman right now would erase any sensitivity concerns!

 

"...I'd bet the excitement of entering a different woman right now would erase any sensitivity concerns!..."

I'd take that bet, at 10 : 1 odds!