Welcome to the real world, hun. Men think nothing of appropriating anyone else's space for their own gratification. You think this is bad, you should see the trans forum. It is overrun with creepy gay men wanting to get boinked by porn stars.
by "mails" are you referring to private messages? that would probably be because hipforums isn't a forum for lesbians, it's a forum for everybody that has a subforum for lesbians. and for some reason, it also attracts a lot of creepy pervert guys who send private messages asking for sex from anything that might have some sort of a hole anywhere in it.
personally, i kind of enjoy trolling the pervs when they message me. or occasionally public shaming them by posting their really gross messages in the public forums. as an alternative, i think there's a way to turn off private messaging.
well i'm not a lesbian, so don't get the wrong idea there. just a guy who's been posting here forever and has seen all the crazy shit this forum can offer. normally i don't go into the lesbian section at all, but i saw this thread and thought i could actually answer your question.
Isnt that just the same thing the guys do though? Just said in a different way You look for dates based on how "hot" they are, their physical appearance. And how horny they are; how easy it might be to get them in the bedroom
Was watching a British TV show the other week. Forget the name, it was just something that popped up on the TV whilst I was mucking around on my phone and kept watching. The premise of the show was the producers pick three dates for you, you go around their house, they cook dinner for you. This particular episode was a Lesbian edition, the first two ladies werent much to look at, (the date-ee herself was no supermodel) but the 2nd lady could cook like a boss, she gobbled up all the food and raved about it, and they got on like a house on fire The third lady was very pretty and skinny, but couldnt cook for shit and kept giving the date-ee these polite but obvious err yeah no, we arent the same ranking looks. Fast forward to the end of the show, she is only allowed to pick one to go on a 2nd date with....surprise surprise, she picked the pretty one that didnt like her. I rolled my eyes, exactly the same thing as a guy would do. Fast forward to the very end, the recap in text at the end.....again surprise surprise, they "decided" to just remain friends
So? Whether its immediately in your face or not, most ladies are going to be able to smell it a mile away