Legit reasons for not having sex

Ok so quite a few of my female friends are getting very sexually frustrated. They are not getting sex very often, sometimes as little as once a month.

Quite a few of them are saying they are just tired after work, but I call BS on that as I used to work between 8-14 hours a day, sometimes 7 days a week, and i would still go out on evenings doing some kind of activity, normally either martial arts or climbing. And still have sex everyday for a good half hour to an hour.

I can understand family becoming a problem, by this I mean raising kids, especially new born. We are not in a stable enough position for children yet so we have not reached that stage. So what i can say there is very limited.

I think a few of them have just lost their sex drive. Some of them almost dont seem like.... well men anymore. I dont mean they are not like RAGGGGG LOOK AT HOW MANLY I AM thats not what i mean by not being men. I just mean they just seem so submissive and almost like they have given up on things and are just surviving rather than living. So it could just be life in general is not how they wanted it.

Im not really sure what else could be the reason, i just think claiming to tired just really seems like BS to me, sounds like there are other reasons that just get pushed aside.

Please state Male or Female, and what reasons you dont want or wont have sex, maybe i can get some ideas.

 

And you are asking this because some of your female friends are frustrated...riiight.

I ain't buying it.

 

Football on tv.
Motorsport on tv.
Listening to new music.
Patted the dog a minute ago.
Didn't get what I wanted for dinner.

 

Is there another person involved once in a while or is this strictly a solo experience?

 

i'm confused. your female friends are apparently uninterested in sex, and are then frustrated by their lack of sex? and those female friends aren't as manly as they used to be?

 

LOL, thats what I got too, but I was giving the benefit of the doubt by filling in between the lines to mean, his female friends men are giving excuses for not wanting to fuck. Why would they be telling him (OP) that anyway, unless they really were just hinting at getting a fuck from him.

What, do they think you are a sex therapist or something, OP?

 

lol

 

This is one of those. Posts that we really shouldn't respond to...


I will call bullshit though

 

Sometimes I go on a sex strike until my wife takes me to get ice cream.

 

My missus is not a morning person but I myself am not a night person so if I'm trying to sleep I get very irritated if anything keeps me from sleeping. I find gaining sleep hard to get at the best of times. I'm also one of those people that finds it necessary to wash myself off after sex because I sweat a bit and don't like wet things on my skin. So sex = a shower = probably wake me up more.

 

I am the opposite. I regularly have sex at 3 or 4 in the morning or whatever time it happens in the middle of the night. We love it. We go to bed at different times so that works for us. No marathon stuff at that time. We do it well for a while, both get off and then go back to sleep while holding each other. Perfect for us.

 

You are a lucky man, Wiz. :sunny:

 

I've done this before and for some reason she's incredibly damn wet haha. If I was on holidays or the weekend or something different story yeah but weekdays I work 11hr days so it's kinda easy just to pop it off mucus elf which I know for certain gives her the shits and the sex later is ALWAYS superior sex. almost like make up sex but it's like held out sex.

 

Just because you are not tired after working a long day, it doesn't mean everyone else in the world is just like you. People are different, just in case you hadn't noticed that. Not just in gender, but in body, mind, stamina, attitude, needs...

There could be 101 reasons why they want sex and aren't getting any...just a few could be health reasons, stress, fatigue, anger (maybe they got fucked over by one too many men), fear.

My question is why the hell are you judging them? Pissed because they aren't fucking you?

 

Ok so sorry after re reading i realized i did not make it to clear. After saying my female friends are complaining that they get sexually frustrated i also should have added they are in long term relationships. And that after the first paragraph where i said they were frustrated the problems that i listed were about their male partners not themselves.

And come on guys some of your replies, really just grow up. Emotions, relationships and things are just of interest to me, my own and other peoples. And as for what do i think i am a therapist or something. No i just think im a friend who is giving and ear that will listen to them..... Im sorry I did not realise this was a bad thing.

 

Oh may i also add, in response to people asking if im mad they are not fucking me. Not really, although some of them are pretty and if my GF was up for it I would very happily make it a group activity. But as she is not interested in group meh nvm I care very little. Im more surprised at peoples response for trying to find out possible reasons and maybe help my friends out a little. All i asked was if your male or female, and if you did not want sex what are the reasons normally. Wow... Guess i hit a nerve for some people.

 

Perfectly understandable. As different times work better for you, how do you cope with this? Do you ever both try to make time? Or do you just let it happen spontaneous still? Or do you just accept it like it is and not have sex often?

 

Hahaha sounds fun to me. Defiantly one way of getting around the different sleeping times.

 

Alcohol.


As for the childish responces you have to know the group your asking. People here dont like trolls and when someone comes in and asks a strange question they just assume your one of the hundreds of trolls that have come here started one thread and was never heard from again.