I want to learn to squirt for my husband, but I don't know where to start. Can anyone guide me in the right direction, or tell me what they did to learn?
There is oodles of info on the web: both genuine and crap! Just distill what you read. I think you'll get far better results from "experts" than on a semi-porn site.
Read this book. i did this with my GF, and found the G spot ,after some months. Don't get ANY book on this, it's got to be THIS BOOK with these 3 authors: LADAS, WHIPPLE, PERRY. EDIT: After you find it, you won't need to read any book.
Thank you, i'll have to check out that book. I've researched online a few times and feel like I'm experiencing what they are describing, the build up and the release, but don't have the squirt.
When you get to this point do you get the feeling like you need to pee? Even when you have an empty bladder and really don't need to pee? If you get this feeling do not hold anything back! Just let it go. This is how it started with my lady. One night we were having a good long session and when she would get worked up she would feel like she had to pee and go to the bathroom. She had an empty bladder. I just told her the next time she felt like that to just let it go and will see what happens. Sure enough while I was eating her she let go and covered my face with her squirt. It was not pee. It was a clear silky, flavourless liquid with no smell. After that first time for her the door has been wide open. She squirts all the time and a lot. From what I have read about others it seems many need to have g-spot stimulation for it to happen. A couple fingers in and up seems to be the thing with some. My lady is lucky enough to be able to get there from clit or g-spot stimulation so good times for us. I really don't not know if it is possible for all women to do it. I have been around for a long time and my current lady is the only one I have experienced it with. I do think more women could probably do it if they let themselves though. Good luck to you on your quest. I think both you and your man will love it. It is hot as fuck.
It took you "months" to find a g spot? Lol, it isn't the biggest pocket down there, I don't know how guys struggle with this. >.>
But they found it together. Read this, scientists will never find it.... http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/8439000.stm The G-spot 'doesn't appear to exist', say researcher a Some are firm believers The elusive erogenous zone said to exist in some women may be a myth, say researchers who have hunted for it. Their study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine si the biggest yet, involving 1,800 women, and it found no proof. The King's College London team believe the G-spot may be a figment of women's imagination, encouraged by magazines and sex therapists. But sexologist Beverley Whipple, who helped popularise the G-spot idea, said the work was "flawed". She said the researchers had discounted the experiences of lesbian or bisexual women and failed to consider the effects of having different sexual partners with different love-making techniques. It is rather irresponsible to claim the existence of an entity that has never been proven and pressurise women and men too Study author Andrea Burri The women in the study, who were all pairs of identical and non-identical twins, were asked whether they had a G-spot. If one did exist, it would be expected that both identical twins, who have the same genes, would report having one. But this pattern did not emerge and the identical tenis were no more likely to share a G-spot than non-identical twins who share only half of their genes. Mythical Co-author of the study Professor Tim Spector said: "Women may argue that having a G-spot is due to diet or exercise, but in fact it is virtually impossible to find real traits. It's fine to go looking for the G-spot but do not worry if you don't find it Sexual psychologist Dr Petra Boynton "This is by far the biggest study ever carried out and shows fairly conclusively that the idea of a G-spot is subjective." Colleague Andrea Burri was concerned that women who feared they lacked a G-spot might feel inadequate, which she says is unnecessary. "It is rather irresponsible to claim the existence of an entity that has never been proven and pressurise women and men too." Dr Petra Boynton, a sexual psychologist at University College London, said: "It's fine to go looking for the G-spot but do not worry if you don't find it. "It should not be the only focus. Everyone is different." The Gräfenberg Spot, or G-Spot, was named in honour of the German gynaecologist Ernst Gräfenberg who described it over 50 years ago. It is said to sit in the front wall of the vagina some 2-5cm up. Recently Italian scientists claimed they could locate the G-spot using ultrasound scans. They said they had found an area of thicker tissue among the women reporting orgasms. But specialists warned there could be other reasons for this difference.
I don't know if it exists. I have a spot that feels good unlike any other spot. I pretend this is it.
Absolutely arianne! Articles like this by "experts " is one of the reasons why people don't know anything about it.
First you should learn to find your g-spot, is usually about 1 to 2 inches inside your vagina on the top wall, and it has a different texture than the rest of the vagina, it feels like something ribbed sometimes a bit hard similar to your palate. You should feel great pleasure when stimulating this area, significantly different than any other part inside your vagina, so it shouldn't be hard to tell if you have found your g-spot or not. When you stimulate this area it feels like something swells up inside (the skene glands which are the equivalent of the male prostate) and if you keep going then you should get the feeling that you're going to pee but is not pee is your ejaculate and it means you're about to cum. Clit and g-spot stimulation works really good also. Check this picture, as you can see the g-spot is right blow where the skene glands are, and is not far from the opening of the vagina. http://biobook.nerinxhs.org/bb/systems/reproduction/1000px-Female_anatomy_with_g-spot-en.png If you're worried about peeing just empty your bladder before any stimulation.
I made my lady squirt for her first time ever and the key is to being relaxed. Don't worry, you're not going to pee. When you feel it coming, just let it come.. relax and enjoy the wave of pleasure. She can make quite the mess to the point where we need to change the sheets and put a fan on the mattress to dry it out. But it's hot and we both love it.
Have you tasted her love juice? It's clean and sweet tasting. Next time have a small glass near when she squirts. Cheers!
I wanted to make my girl squirt. She is so scared but once i convinced her. so we made out in the washroom and she sat , so i fingered her pussy deep and i could feel her muscles shaking and trembling and she had tears and was moaning very loud but in the end she stopped and said she cant do it. is it true that women pee is the same feeling they get while they squirt? like a jet stream of liquid
the way I explain finding the g-spot is that put your finger in there and it feels like the roof of your mouth, it's the only spot in there that feels like that. You need to be able to relax because you won't pee, once you learn how to have a g-spot orgasm then you try to build one up and squirt. I got the woman I am with right now squirting. It takes me over 45 minutes to get her to squirt so it takes time.
I wish you all the luck. I've done some reading about it, and some people say that any woman can learn to squirt (Fingers crossed for you this is true!) while some say that only certain women are "built" to do so. I'm a squirter, absolutely against my will I might add, and I wish I could offer some tips. I went from never having orgasms to always having multiple squirting (more like gushing... or Noah's flood) orgasms for no damn good reason. Practice on a towel or some kind of absorbent pad. Or any other easy to clean surface for that matter. If you do get it right, it could just be a trickle... or it could be something so much more intense and you'll want to be prepared. I've read that the amount can vary between one to two tablespoons, to a cup or more. Cleanup can be a major pain if you're not ready for it so I guess that is my one tip. *in Scar from the Lion King's voice* Be prepaaaaaaaaared!
I agree. The first time I squirted shocked the hell out of me and then I was thrilled. It doesn't happen every time and each time is a little different.
I don't really see the attractiveness of it all to be honest.. But that's just me. I like the wetness don't get me wrong, but something about physically squirting fluids out and about.. Berr.