Hi everyone, I'm someone with very high anxiety, and I did myself no favors last night. It had been a bit for me, and more than anything I was curious about the whole casual sex thing, and wondering if I was missing out (NO!) I had my first (and only!) one night stand last night with a girl I didn't know. I used protection and well before climaxing I pulled out and she gave me oral. Genital to genital was probably only about 5mins. I know she is promiscuous, which is what scares me the most. And probably also just not knowing her. At the same time, I know she is careful as far as protection and assured me she gets tested regularly. I did notice a couple of red marks in her inner thighs. She is a heavier girl, and told me those were chafe marks. Of course I've been freaking out tons. I should have known I would. For the most part reading other peoples' stories online is freaking me out more. If I could find something to worry about it would probably be herpes. I wish I could know NOW, but I see that I would have to wait at least 4 or so weeks for the test to show anything (if I did contract anything). Any thoughts? Already not sleeping or holding food in
Asking online is not going to make the wait after visiting a doctor any shorter. At best someone might be able to give you some comforting words that will ease your anxiety a little but go to the doctor.
you need to relax, it's done so if you got something then it's there. As for the red marks a lot of women get ingrown hairs and if she was a bigger girl she will chaffe when she walks. A condom won't always stop herpes but at the same time you can catch a lot of crap from the oral. just go get tested and wait the time...there is nothing else you can do. If she gets tested on a regular basis and you trust that then relax.
in my experience ive never met a fat chick with an std....they don't get banged enough....get some sleep
