Last night- our first experience

congrats to both

shadow i think it could be that there is more going on than you are used to;
is this ok is that ok, does she like it will he mind ?, what are they doing ?
hope they are having o good time too etc etc etc
i dont think its anxiety more that there is a lot for you to take in if that makes sense, but as you all get closer and more comfortable with the experience and learn each others boundaries then you will relax more and be back to full strength in that department haha
but yeah well done both of you for taking this step and thank you so much for sharing the experience rep all round

 

Thanks this actually does make sence to me... i was kinda wondering if this might be it but dismissed it. Im really a people pleaser in bed and i always want to make sure Aine cums several times before i do and i think that the fealings kinda translate over to the other girl. That and im still kinda over protective toward Aine so i seem to keep my eye on her and him and that distracts me a little... Its not that i think he will do anything wrong more like i want to make sure she is enjoying herself. I think your right that as we get closer ill be more comfortable with the boundries and be able to be back to my old self. thanks

 

well shadow my friend your obviously doing something right and Aine is obviously a very happy and lovely lady, So yeah just keep going and having a whole lotta fun.

 

That is the key, Shadow

I hope that it is, and remains fun for you.

 

YEah...I'd say your performance issues are what tribfan said. I know that almost every time I'm with someone new the first experience (sometimes the first two or three) isn't as good for me, performance-wise. I need a certain level of comfort and familiarity to get rock hard and hammer it home to my best ability.

I'm sure once you get into the "swing" of it, it'll all work out. Pun definitely intended, lol.

 

Perhaps it is a bit of anxiety in that subconsciously you might feel there is a bit of competition now, or there is a bit more pressure on you to be as good or better than when aine is with the other guy. Obviously there is no competition really, but maybe just that you wanna to please her in the back of your mind you want to be better than him. Which you probably are, but the worry in there somewhere is probably finding its way out.

Just an idea.

To be honest im way to neurotic to do the same with my girl even tho it would be fun lol

Best of luck to you guys, keep having fun

 

Welcome to the dark side. :reddevil:

:cheers2:

 

May I ask two questions:

Is everyone totally naked, head to toes, during this?

Has Aine gotten her toes sucked yet? She has very sexy feet

 

Why thank you it is a very lovely side and we are enjoying our stay very much