Yeah I know the feeling. I just wondered which side you would feel you had to justify to. And now I'm just interested because I like people's unpopular opinions, I miss that thread.
It's an unwinnable argument, and being that I am far from a social butterfly, it's not really my lane. However, that doesn't make it a losing argument.
I dont disagree with this, but wanting a man with a job and a stable income and maybe a bit of ambition isnt the same as wanting a rich man only because of his money. I dont really know many women, if any, who care about being with a rich man. Which, for about the millionth time on hipforums over the years, makes me wonder where you guys are finding these women who give you this perception lol
Well, yeah. I know that. Women (and men) tend to go with what is in their league. Obviously a woman with more average looks is going to settle for a man who leans more towards average in his career/financial life. With beautiful women they can get any man they want, and those men, regardless of their looks, are not hurting financially.
Yeah I just dont agree with your assumption that beautiful women only go for rich men and average women are only settling because they can't land a rich man. It just doesnt jive with the character of most people I know We'll have to agree to disagree
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There are millions of gorgeous women living average lives. I think it's just because men don't understand beauty like women. Sure, there are superficial people among both the sexes. But women tend to go for funny guys, and it doesn't always matter what they look like. Though, also, I find the whole "funny" routine played out. It's like, you use sarcasm to imply that a woman is doing something wrong, and that is what funny is.
i've seen plenty of beautiful women with trailer trash guys. granted, i suspect a lot of these women either grew up in a trailer park/ghetto/similar situation themselves and it's all they know, or they're addicted to something, or both. i just listened to born to die because i was hoping it was a choking victim cover. it was not, but it was a pretty good song anyway.
I love these heteronormative claims about what women really want from men, because, biology. It totally ignores the fact that a small minority of us, we few, we band of sisters, don't want anything from men but friendship. Anyhoo...Lana Del Rey. I don't dislike her music exactly, but I don't like it enough to seek it out. If I hear one of her songs, I'm fine with it, but I'm not going to rush out to buy her new album though. Caught Billie Ellish on SNL the other night, and felt the same tinge of meh...her music is just there too. I guess I'm saying I'm neutral.
That's because on so many issues they are not you. Sure women tend to like personality more than men. It says something about them I guess. But beauty is really relative. Even models will have people who don't like them. I see plenty of men with women I don't find attractive and we all get old and die. All things are temporary as Buddah said. I think healthy relationships are more than looks. Of course there needs to be a sexual element there at some point. But when you are 70 you can't get it up anyway and every women is wrinkled. You either still love her or try to get a college girl. Two kinds of men I guess. The things that hold women back are being fat and tall. Without those factors men will always come for them until they are older. My partner is 5'9 and this means even though she literally did modeling (local so not really famous) men ignored her. It was really they are short or did not like her not a 50's women attitude. The average American man is 5'10 so how many are under? What does "ugly" mean anyway regarding men? It's usualy how another men has judged him. IE I am taller, I have more muscle, I have the right political view so I am better looking and he is ugly. There is an alpha man who a women will deep down just seek since he can protect offspring and teach the right goals. These men get upset when a 5'6 200 pound man can land a 10 and think he's "ugly" 9 times out of 10. Women know what I said is true. The heart beats the 6 pack but a 6 pack or nice tits are a nice bonus.
I find the idea that all women are identical to be repulsive. Why would it even be true? Their backgrounds are as varied as something that is very various. Some have rich dads; some have poor dads. Some are smart. Some are dumb. Some of them know what they want, others are clueless. And I just hate the idea that they're all the same.