Lady's only...would you consider or try anal every time if you REALLY loved him???

Not every time me and my partner have sex because 1. it wouldn't make the occasion special and 2. its not something you can just do every time, you have to feel ready and relaxed to be able to enjoy Anal Sex.

 

i like the idea of every time, that in itself turns me on for some reason, like im being super naughty being anal only.... lol

 

I am not sure about it. If I was to have anal sex I think I would want to use a condom. There are condoms on the market that are stronger and less likely to break during anal intercourse.

IMO anal sex could be dangerous because the tissue in the anus could tear. STD are more easily transmitted thru anal sex as well.

here is a wiki article on anal sex


http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anal_sex

 

bleh, never had an issue! Mostly play it safe though. HAHA

 

I've never had a problem myself, my partner doesn't use a condom. I just make sure I'm clean and loads of foreplay and lubrication.

 

I like to fuck chicks in the ass but you're talking over kill. There's a porn star named Aurora Jolie who has never given up her pussy on camera. She's a hot mixed chick with a nice ass and great, tremendous boobs. Anyway, as fine as she is and as much as I like to watch porn, I can't come when I watch her get fucked in the ass. I know it's because in the back of my mind, I know that this is all she does. It has lost its shine in a way. The novelty is gone. I would fear that this would happen if I just fucked the ass every time. I have gone through stretches where I would do it for a week straight but I NEVER go straight to the ass. Vaginal first and make her cum then go for the ass.

 

This is another example of sex being used as a weapon of exploitation.....man says "if you REALLY loved me we'd do anal all the time"....woman says "Tell me you REALLY love me and we'll do anal all the time".

It's wrong, wrong wrong. Sex should be about what you WANT to do and what your partner WANTS you to do, and vice versa. "How much" you love someone (assuming there can be degrees of love) shouldn't be in any way relevant.

It's a short walk from real love = anal to real love = buy me a car/house/holiday.... sex shouldn't be like that.

 

I've done anal before with an ex… 31/2 years ago. I'm going to try it again tonight with my boyfriend and see how it goes! I used to like it but the way i see it, i won't like it or get used to it if i don't try it!

I'm excited and nervous all at the same time…

 

We typically have anal 5-10 times a week. If we fuck in her pussy it's only right before her period. The almost anally exclusive intercourse is a mutual decision and we find it highly rewarding.

 

To me anal is as common as vaginal penetration. There is absolutely no anal taboo in our relationship.

 

Like 8 or 9 times out of 10, my boyfriend and I include anal in our intercourse routine. We start out vaginal, then move to anal. If we aren't doing anal, then we're doing oral.

The way we started out wasn't that great, though. My boyfriend kept pushing it and asking even though I kept saying no. Then to make it worse, he'd ask mid intercourse. Like we'd be having sex and he'd ask. Instant turn off? Most definitely. But that's because of the way he was being about it. I'd let him do it once before because I got him super horny and due to a miscommunication, he thought I was bringing the condoms when I thought he was. So I thought I'd let him have me anal that once, and it was the first time he'd ever done it. Obviously he really liked it.


I decided to cave in and let him do it because I had been looking stuff up about it. I enjoy it now, but it kinda bugs me that I let him when he wasn't giving me the respect I deserved when I said no. But oh well, what's done is done. If you find yourself in the same situation though, hold your ground. Unless you actually want to get into it.

 

So my boyfriend and I tried anal last night, his first time, my…. 7th? anyways, he loved it. It is def going to take some getting used to again for me.

 

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It isn't painful if you do it right. It feels GOOD. So good I even have anal orgasms. I've been doing it since I was 19 and I really enjoy it. I don't do it with every guy I have sex with, I only do it with guys I trust and I feel comfortable with.

Most of the objections to anal sex are just based on ignorance and the taboo nature of anal sex in our society.

I'm not suggesting we make it compulsory but I cringe when women are so close-minded about it. Having said that - it's no different to any other sexual activity - if you don't like it or don't feel comfortable with it then you shouldn't do it and your partner should respect that.

 

Not really sure why you were responding to me Victoria, because if you read back through the thread you'll see I was responding to another person who was assuming it had to be painful.

 

I fucked a german chick before and she came a lot harder when I fucked her ass and she played with her pussy. Also when I fucked her pussy, she loved for me to put a few fingers in her ass. Nice!!

 

If you really loved me you'd do the dishes every time!

Its all a continuum, dont try to seperate it out into what society decides is what. I'd hope that two married people can deal with eachother without referring to society's bullshit manuals on what they should and shouldnt do, and how they should love and deal with eachother. if the guy wants to say that, then good luck to him. Its not like some secret weapon he has, if the girl has a half brain she'll say "NO FUCK YOU!" if she doesnt want to do it, and if she wants to trade it off in her mind for other things then thats her business too. If she's weak willed and gotten herself into a relationship she cant deal with, anal sex is the least of the issues.

 

isnt there a little more prep and cleanup and the like? how do you stay 'as ready'?

 

We do anal more than we do vaginal but we don't do it every time because she's not always in the mood to clean it.

Anal takes prep. so it's not something you can do spontaneously like vaginal unfortunately.

My wife jokingly said just the other day that she wishes her butt could magically be clean all the time because she said sometimes she just wants to jump on my dick ass first but she can't because she does want to get shit on me.

We usually only have vaginal for quickies, when we're going to have a sex session it's usually anal.