I recently developed an erectile dysfunction with my current partner, I’d say around 70% of the time I lose my erections during sex and although she is cool about it it’s really frustrating for me. A couple of weeks into our relationship I went to the doctor and got prescribed viagra and any time I’ve used it we’ve had amazing sex! When I stopped using it however the problem returned and as I didn’t want to become dependent on it I’ve been trying to limit using it. However Even when I can perform I can’t do anywhere near as well as I can when I’ve taken viagra. Anyway, my partner is aware of the problem as I said but I’ve never told her I’ve been taking viagra and my question is...should I? We’ve been really honest an open about everything but I’m worried that she will be offended if I tell her our best nights together have been because of viagra or she’ll get offended if I continue to use it. Just trying to get sone real opinions on the subject
I wouldn't get offended by a guy using viagra to have sex, your partner seems cool with it so I doubt she'll have any issues with it. As far how much you should use it I don't really know, that's probably a better question for your doctor. It's really up to you if you want to tell her or not and like you said she's cool with it so I don't see the issue with telling her if you want. She might suspect if you used to have troubles with it and then suddenly you don't have anymore so I would say it but it's really up to you
Tell her. She needs to know so she won't feel it is something she is not doing correctly. I can tell you my recent partner was dissapointed when I forgot to take my dose before we hooked up once. Right during the throes of passion I gave out as in went flaccid. She readjusted and got me going again if only for a short time. Not knowing I need to use Viagra I let her know what the problem was. She was very dissapointed but understanding of my medical condition. She herself needs help for intercourse as in extra lubrication. At her age her body doesn't provide the natural moisture through her vagina and she lubricates herself prior to us having intercourse. It is not a shame getting old or getting help to enjoy sex. Tell her about your issues with maintaining an erection. I'm sure she will appreciate the honesty. I know the last time my partner and I got together she asked if I had remembered my Viagra. It was good for both of us that I did.