How many of you ladies over 45 have anal sex, do you enjoy it and how often do you have it? I ask this because it seems like ladies closer to my age, 51, don’t like it as much as younger ladies.
I am 48 and I’m hooked on anal. I prefer it and fantasize about it all the time. I have anal at least once a week but most of the time more. I enjoy it almost too much I think, if that’s even possible, lol. I will say though that it took me a long time to figure out how to do it without causing a lot of pain and often backing out. I think I was probably in my late thirties and had been experimenting since my late twenties before I figured out how to get things inserted. You HAVE to go slow and use plenty of lube. Clit stimulating while inserting helps A LOT too. Loosening up with fingers or toys before helps by massaging the sphincter. Fingers are better, whether it’s the giver or the taker. You both can actually feel that muscle begin to relax but obviously only the taker will feel it with a toy. If it’s painful though you should stop. Still to this day occasionally I have to call it off and believe me my body is very well trained in it. I don’t know if it’s the positions or what but if it’s painful we won’t do it. That doesn’t happen a lot but it still does occasionally.
Thanks for the post! My wife and I are 51 and anal has been on our menu since our 20’s but only a few times a year. My wife says pain has never been much of any issue for her and she has the BIGGEST orgasms from anal with clit/vaginal stimulation. About 6 years ago she cut me off from anal because I started having ed problems due to diabetes, she said I needed to be very hard for it. Back in July I got installed with a penile implant and now I get hard as steel. I started asking her about anal a while back. She told me last week that she would be ready for it in a week or two. With her being in menopause now she doesn’t think she still have those big orgasms anymore. I hope she’s wrong because I LOVE it when I can give her those orgasms and I love the tightness of anal. Anyway it doesn’t seem seem to be very popular for people about our age which is why I posted the question. Judging from the results so far I’m guessing I’m right.
Bravo Iamhis11387 !!! What a loving & sexy thing to do with your guy !! Lots of hot pleasure to you both. Would you be willing to speak to my wife about the pleasure you get and how you'd advise to get into it?? ( Pm if you'd prefer. ) I've recently tried a butt plug of medium size on her and she didn't even realize it was all the way in. BUT - I had been orally and vibe stimulating her for a while before the plug. AND I went slowly with it. Like g65389pon, I hope more ladies will chime in on this thread. Always great to hear from the ladies !!
My wife is 60. She was forced to take it in the ass in college. It hurt so badly that she would never let anybody, including me, try it again. So in her case, her college date ruined the experience for her.
I am enamoured of you! I am a married bisexual bottom, and I LOVE anal sex, both giving & receiving ... receiving from an amorous top man who can't keep his hands off me or get enough of me in bed, but am also just as enamoured of every woman who has a sexy ass as I am of a hard dick! I, too, have learned many tricks that enhance the act (especially avoiding the pain that can accompany initial & deep-reaching penetration ... if we can get it in all the way with no discomfort, then he can fuck me as hard & fast & deep as he wants, as many times as he wants it!)! Thanks for letting all us horny (for ass!) guys know that there ARE women out there that love it as much as we do!
Not sure if your still out there but thanks for the comment. I know this is taboo, maybe not as much as it used to be but it still is. I’ve had other women tell me this is dangerous and I’ve heard many women say why would you enjoy that but my husband of over 33 years is very much in to pleasing me, he always has been. He doesn’t want to have sex if I’m not going to have an orgasm, but it’s ok with me if I don’t. We had some rocky years but the sex now is so much better then it ever has been. It was hard with a house full of kids all those years but now that it’s just me and him I run around the house bare bottom all the time so he has easy access to me. If he wants it I will either drop to my knees or bend over and give it to him wherever he wants it. He will go down on me anytime I ask for it. I’m not exaggerating either, we really are that much into sex after the 40’s. I’m trained enough now I can take anal dry or lubed. For years I was so worried about incontinence but it has not happened to me yet, doesn’t mean it won’t for someone else but for me it has not and I don’t think it will. We will find out if it does though because I have no intentions of stopping. I really do love it. I have found one other trick that helps with the initial insertion, she needs to reach down and pull up on the anus (like the skin between the anus and vagina) as he’s inserting. That does help me tremendously, I have very little to no pain. Once the muscle is stretched it’s all his I can take anything, even rough fast and hard. It’s so amazing! Just be good to each other, be mindful and considerate of one another’s wants and desires. That really is key in any relationship.
I'm 75 and my anal only wife will be 70 next year. We have no intentions of giving up our anal sessions, usually once a week but sometimes more often. For starters she always orgasms from anal and she never did from PIV sex. We have been AO for practically the entire 30+ years of our relationship.
My wife is 60, I'm 59, and we've been doing anal since out honeymoon 36 years ago. We had been having sex for years and on our honeymoon we broke her anal cherry. It's been a regular part of sex ever since then. She can orgasm from anal. It's been filled with fingers, toys, veg, two cocks, stretched from a speculum and more recently during lockdown I fisted her ass and pussy at the same time. Yesterday our early morning sex was her mounting me and taking me deep in her ass, riding me hard.
My wife is 53 and I'm 48. Been having anal sex since the first night we had sex over 20 years ago. Usually once a week but sometimes more often. It's not her first choice always, but she really enjoys it when in the mood which is usually on weekends after a glass of wine. Last Wednesday she wanted me to go straight into her ass. No clit or pussy play or even nipple play. Caught me off guard! Saturday night she wanted it again in her ass. Fucked her ass for at least 45min until I was exhausted. She could've gone longer! If I had a choice, she'd be 53 forever! Lots of anal sex at this age! Love it!
The best blowjob I've ever had was from a 65+ year old woman. After she finished me, we talked for a while and she mentioned that she loves to suck but she really loves it in her backside. I visited a week later and let her tease me with her mouth before mounting her rear. I swear she came better than I did. I don't know if she's much of an exception but she wasn't hard to find.
You are wrong, many mature women are into and desire anal sex. I've had a number of them over the years and their "moto" was "ANAL ONLY" after a prolonged sucking session of my cock...I'm married so if you want to fuck me you'll have to fuck my ass. OK!
I see you posted this some time ago but I’m just seeing it. My wife and I are both in our 50’s (married for 30+years) and I’m trying to incorporate anal into our sex life. Does stimulating your clit help to relax you to where it was easier to insert things? My wife worries about the pain so right now I’m starting slow (tonguing her anus). If I can ask, what is the best position for the least discomfort and what sorts of things helped you the most to get from point z to point a?
