Ladies help, how can I get my gf to suck my cock more?

My gf rarely sucks my cock, Idk what i have to do to get her to do it more, she saids that my cock doesnt fit around her mouth and she always just ends up licking the shaft and balls but i tell her all the time she doesn't need to put it all in her mouth just suck the tip is good enough for me to get off, and she doesn't like how i have a huge load all the time she cant takr it all on the face or her chest let alone her mouth. So i havent had any action down there sence the beginning of last month... <~~~that's my very sad face

 

Hey, your 'very sad face' didn't come over in your copy/paste from your thread on the same topic you started yesterday which no one replied to.

I bet it's even sadder now, hahaha !!

 

Well I'm not a lady but I can tell you that if she doesn't like your cum or the amount of your cum then you are totally cock blocking yourself by not taking that out of the equation. Yeah sure every guy would love to cum in his girls mouth, or on her face or tits. Reality is I'm sure that gets old for girls real quick. So tell her you won't come in her face, mouth or on her (and mean it, don't pull a whoops) and instead be laying down and just have her finish by jerking you off onto your stomach. I think most woman at least like to see cum coming out, maybe just not on them. You think porn stars wear smiles as they get facials because they like it? Hell no skippy, they know it's the end and they are getting paid!

Another thing you can try is if you go down on her, position your body such that she can also go down on you. Then you can work your way into a 69 position

 

Sounds like your gf just needs to get used to cum. Huge loads are wonderful. Let her know that she doesn't need to swallow it down all in one gulp. She can take as many swallows as needed. Two or three swallows are fine before she moves on and sucks and licks your cock clean. That's what I do on the all too rare occasions when my husband cums that much. When we were younger I used to enjoy facials, but that can get very messy and accident (cum in eyes) prone. Having all his cum go into my mouth and then swallowing it is good.

 

Wow tinyclit, that's cool of you to still take it in the mouth and swallow it. My wife stopped doing that years ago. She'll take a bit in the mouth but doesn't like to swallow it and brushes her teeth right after so maybe I'm not as "tasteful" as I once was.

However what she will do for me is blow me till near completion, hand me off to never never land and then after I've pretty much cum everything or as I'm at the tail end she'll go back down on me again and that drives me crazy good OMFG!!!

I've tasted my pre-cum, and even a bit of my own cum. It's not like eating candy so I can't believe any girl out there "Likes" the taste of cum or if they do it's certainly an acquired taste. I would tend to think girls do it to make their man happy. And I totally get that, there are things I love to do to my wife, not necessarily because i "Like them" but rather because I love seeing her get enjoyment out of them. Still though to the OP I'd say rather than try to breach the gulf of trying to make your GF "like" your cum or deal with it somehow, take it out of the equasion for now and that's your best chances of turning things around. That and making sure you are clean down there. In other words don't come home after a hard day of work, you're ripe down there and say "Bitch go down!" That shit ain't gonna fly...

 

I don't know what your cock looks like, but I don't think any of them can fit around a mouth.

And how the fuck can't she take a load on her chest? Are you shooting lead?

 

tinyclit..you have a VERY! lucky husband!

 

Hygiene could be a possible issue too. I enjoy sucking a man's cock just as much as any other sex act, but I don't want to suck him off unless she's clean and showered.

If hygiene in that manner is not an issue, then it could be KingWilly said, and she just doesn't enjoy swallowing or getting your cum on her. I have to agree with tinyclit in that getting used to tasting cum is a pretty natural part of the blowjob (I generally suck a guy off until he jizzes in my mouth and I swallow it as well). If she's not very fond of the taste of cum, then she'll of course be very apprehensive. A healthy diet of fruits is supposed to help add some sweetness to your cum (like apples, and less protein/meat).

Also, a lot of girls I know (including myself) don't like the guy grabbing us by the hair or head, I like being in control and not feeling like I'm being forced down on his cock; helps with less stressed jaw muscles and not inducing a gag reflex.

Hopefully something in there will help you two out though, and you can both enjoy the wonders of a healthy sex life complete with full-on oral sexing. ^_~

 

KingWillie

I couldn't appreciate more what you said about porn stars and their smiling faces. I wish more men would understand that porn stars are paid for what they do. Ya some experiences for them are enjoyable but lets face it they're also working so not every single experience is going to make her grin from ear to ear. Remember men, porn stars are paid to smile.

Also, you mentioned the taste turns your wife off. Sometimes a mans diet can affect how he tastes. Maybe you've started taking a supplement / vitamin that makes your spunk taste different? I know one guy I was with had the most horrible smelling semen I've ever smelled it was like rotting whale sperm or something. Awful. He takes a ton of supplements. Not sure if thats true for every guy though, could be something with his body chemistry.

Lastly to OP - some women just don't like sucking dick. You should find out if she has any sexual desire for it whatsoever since it sounds like she only wants to do a couple licks here and there. I know for me, its a really big turn on I love sucking my fiancés penis and get really excited doing it. On the other hand, I know a few friends who are disgusted by the idea of licking the place a man pees from, or the thing that goes in their vaginas. I personally don't get it but whatever thats how they feel. If it's a matter of pain / her jaw hurting this could be because her mouth isn't relaxed as much. She should relax her jaw and not bear down on your penis so much. Sometimes when I'm tired I will put more pressure on him with my lips which then creates stiff jaw pain for me, when in actuality I should be using my hand to give him the gripping tight sensation. If its just the issue of not wanting to taste your cum or even deal with your cum, jeez idk. Tell her that she makes you so excited you cum more than usual when she sucks it. Hehe

 

So true lol. KingWilly I love you, you should help more of these guys out.

 

Because I must have control over my own thrusting rate, there's no way I can possibly reach an orgasm from Oral alone. It's fine as part of foreplay, but even if it continues for an extended period, not only do never reach orgasm, but I simply end up losing my erection altogether. The same thing tends to go for Mutual Masturbation for that matter. In fact, in my adult life, only one man has been able to bring me to climax by masturbation alone.

 

Ever heard of face fucking?

 

No problem HappyInLove

You also bring up some very good points to about taste and such. I've too have heard that diet and eating habits changes the taste of cum, but to what end I have no idea. I've read that eating more fruits and veggies makes it sweeter while eating more meats makes it more pungent. So I can only imagine what taking supplements would do, lol.

Another related aspect is pre-cum. I myself through stimulation of any kind will start to ooze out pre-cum and as a guy I have no feeling of when it happens, but I know when my wife is going down on me I can tell just by her face when i release some into her mouth. She gracefully wipes her tongue on my shirt or whatever she can find that's near.

So OP that may be a big aspect as well in her mind is when she starts getting those pre-cum waves she knows the end is getting near and if you cum buckets like you say it's no wonder she doesn't want to continue, or like HappyInLove said maybe your GF doesn't have much practice and her jaw starts aching, or maybe both.

Bottom line it sounds like it grosses her out and she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings or tell you straight out. It could be she just doesn't like giving blow jobs, or it could be more that the end grosses her out, which is what I keep thinking. You can't really control your pre-cums but you do know when you're approaching your main cum, so without beating this thing to death I think you should tell her how good it makes you feels when she goes down on you and just ask her if it's just the cum she doesn't like and if so, then tell her you'll let her know when you're getting close and she can just masturbate you to completion on you, not her. And if it is something else like her jaw gets tired or she just simply doesn't like to do it try to get that out of her, without trapping her or making her feel guilty.

In the end there may be nothing you can do, or maybe it is something you can fix and is something she'd enjoy more if certain things were changed, good luck!

 

I need to fine me a girl who likes to go down on me I like going down on my girl but don't do it often anyone out there ?

 

I need me to find me a girl who's likes going down on me I love going down on my girl but she's doesn't do it for me any one out there ?

 

No.

 

Disguise your penis as a piece of chocolate

 

I must have a genetic mutation because I think oral sex is OK, but I can't climax that way. I like watching it for a minute, but please...we're both going to be so much happier when he goes where he belongs

 

I don't much like giving head and know there's a psychological component. My first boyfriend who I gave myself to sort of forced me to give him head AND came in my mouth the very first time, and directed it to happen other times. When I say forced, I mean he directed me to his dick and guided me to take it - wasn't my idea or desire. And he would thrust deeply, really fuck my mouth as opposed to me giving him head. I have prudish tendencies to start with, came from a family where healthy sexuality was NOT modeled, so I was very naive. At any rate, he would hold my head and make me mouth fuck him. Very psychologically fucked up relationship over the long haul. We split after 8 years, the latter half of which I knew I wanted out, finally got the courage to leave. He was nine years older than me when I lost my virginity to him at 18.

So, I have hang-ups about that and REALLY hate it if my husband tries to hold my head and guide me. I have a real negative response to that. And, I will not take it in the mouth/swallow. Add to that the fact that I have a very small mouth and TMJ - it just isn't pleasant. And the smell and taste of cum gags me. I feel bad that I don't want to do it, and my husband insists that it doesn't matter, that he doesn't really like it anyway, but I see him on adultfriendfinders.com watching women giving head all the time, so I know he is just saying that to make me feel better.

I want to try to do it for him to make him feel good, need to get better about trying for him. I still won't take him cumming in my mouth, but I do want to try to please him and get out of our rut of doing the same routine all the time.

So, iwantathreesome, have you talked with her about why she finds it icky? I'm sure she feels bad that she doesn't want to do it for you but may have her reasons, too.

KingWilly, thank you for being so understanding and not making out like it's the woman's problem and she should get over it and do it regardless. She is the only one who can decide whether she wants to overcome her issues with it. If it's a long term deal breaker, then time to move on. Otherwise, explore other options.

My husband has a fantasy he'd like realized, watching me with another man. I've yet to get the courage up, and part of that is because I fear I'd be expected to give head to that other man. I'm just not very adventurous, sexually. My husband has a small cock and the one thing that first boyfriend did give me was lots of great orgasms with his 8 inches, so I do get excited at the idea of having another big cock. Likewise, I wouldn't really be opposed to meeting up with a couple in theory, whereby the gal could give my husband the head that I know he craves. We've never ventured outside of our marriage, and I fear that it would create unexpected problems between us....