I have only read a page or two of this discussion, and have seen several posts that attempt to describe a cuckold. From my reading about the topic (mostly on this Forum), I think an essential element is a healthy dose of humiliation on the part of the husband. That is, the wife humiliates the husband about his inadequate sexual performance, or his penis size. The husband finds this humiliation to be sexually arousing and craves it. Typically, the wife humiliates her husband in front of her lovers. She might compare their penis sizes or the relative prowess of the lover over the husband. She may require the husband to orally clean her after she has had sex with her lover and then deny the husband her body, requiring him to masturbate while she and her lover watch and laugh at him. For some reason, the cuckold husband finds this to be extremely arousing. Additionally, the wife is having sex outside of the marriage on her own terms, and not necessarily with the permission of the husband. Never had the desire to be a cuckold, and never had the desire to share my wife, so I don't speak with any degree of expertise. Just my 2 ¢ worth.
The term is actually derived from a movie . Below is my interpretation "A man who willingly encourages his wife to sleep with other people because it brings him pleasure. Cuckolds exist on a spectrum between two extremes." A bit simplistic but it works for me
I like to make hubby happy and I enjoy fucking his friend and his friend enjoys fucking Me! So we are All Happy!
Humiliation… No way! My wife and I practice compersion. We do what we do out of respect for each other and our individual sex life. To have a extra person or a couple in our bed is adult recreational fun.
My wife likes to cuckold me on occasion. I don’t have a cock cage or anything like on porn. She likes to fuck men in front of me and tell me how she enjoys it.
A bit. I don’t have a big dick. I’m about 5.5 inches. She’s had a boyfriend for about 6 months now. He’s pretty hung. Like 9 or 10 inches. A month or so ago, she got a call from him. She had it on speaker. She asked if he was coming over tonight. He said he could and asked when I’d be gone. She said when I left for work. She said, “Hurry over. I’ve been craving a real cock.” A few times she will fuck him right in front of me. Once she said, “I see you looking pretty hard. You like seeing his cock inside me? Do you? You like that big duck in my pussy? Bet you’d like to suck it, don’t you faggot.” It kinda turned me on, I’ll admit. She is using an iud and doesn’t use condoms. She will lay back with his load spilling out of her pussy and will say, “Come over here and clean me up if you ever want to fuck me again.”
Yeah, more of a free love thing for us too. After the first time, we’ve really enjoyed watching each other fuck and cum with others. Mind you we’ve never done a mfm threesome. Always swapped back and forth with others for the most part.
We were more into couples also only did a few mfm threesomes. Looking back one was very memorable. Those were the days.
I remember you telling me your husband never watched when you guys had a 3some. Isn’t that impossible?
We have some slight humiliation, I guess, she will ask if I can feel his cum in her and stuff like that but cages and stuff leave me cold. I think there is always an element of if when you are watching another guy cum in your girl, that is part of the thrill
My wife has been cuckolding me for the last 6 years. It's not a 24/7 lifestyle for us... Though "once a cuckold, always a cuckold." It's a long story, but about 6years ago, my wife reconnected with her ex-boyfriend, who's also her highschool sweetheart. I know a lot of people will probably say "WTF" or she's just "cheating" on me. It's definitely NOT cheating, as I gave my consent, and I honestly believe I was preconditioned to be a cuckold, as nearly every woman I was in a relationship with prior to meeting my wife had cheated on me. With my wife, it's always been DIFFERENT. She's always had a seemingly insatiable sexual appetite, and she has always been open and honest about her thoughts, NEEDS, desires, and intensions.