So for me I love a combination for soft and hard, when I initiate myself I know my partner likes a bit of warm up, so I will cuddle and kiss a lot and do my best to really get her going. Then I love just ripping off all her clothes and force her down and give her a good seeing to. And after give her all the love and care in the world that I hold for her. When she starts it on me. I absolutely love it when she just comes up to me forces me down on the bed ties me up and fucks the living shit out of me, and teases me and sucks me, punishes me until im basically begging to cum. Then cuddle to some sweet talk and sleep together, or watch something or read a story or something together.
I love it when my wife gently kisses my neck, whilst at the same time grabbing my hardening cock and slowly beginning to wank me off. It feels especially good if we are both naked and she is whispering just how much she wants my cock. I'm in heaven if she's also telling me what she wants me to do with her. I'm hard now as I think about that scenario!!
My favorite was the time I was sitting on the couch, watching TV, and my wife came in without saying a word, knelt in front of me, took out my dick, and started sucking. It didn't take long before her sexy black gown was on the floor, with us on the couch making love. Now, I wait in bed until she comes in and lies beside me. Then the kissing starts the whole process.
for sure kissing....then my one lady loves me to rip off her bra and start the sucking, etc....after that it is whatever comes our way...
I always manipulated the situation to where I performed cunnilingus on her first. This would usually turn into 69 quickly.
Sometimes - this is only once in a while when she's in a certain mood - she will start it off by stroking my balls while kissing me very aggressively. I love that!
My favourite is when I wake up from a deep sleep and she has got my cock in her mouth giving me a bjob. I sometimes pretend to be asleep so I can see how long she will carry on.
. . . quite a preponderance of "gentlemen" in these posts The ladies know The ladies know They just don't want to share
In seriousness, for me, ideally, it would start off with a soft kiss, but only after cuddling/holding.
. . . when I feel that hand Sometimes shaky Sometimes confident Find its way under that elastic band That tiny barrier between outside and "inside" When those fingertips slip into my panty Descend into my crotch Through my pubes Down to the tip of my labia When he or she finds that little fleshy pearl And Caresses it until it reacts, slightly swells and makes me coo as I kiss That That is when "it" is on Take me
Another way I like sex to be initiated is when I 'catch' my wife wearing only her underwear, getting out of the shower or getting changed. It's so horny when we move towards each other in this scenario with both of us knowing that passionate, lustful sex is about to follow. I've recently bought her some nylon tights and wrapped them up with a post it note saying 'Hope I don't come home and catch you wearing only these!XXX.' That's one way I'm really looking forward to sex being initiated. I'm waiting....patiently!