ladie embarrassed to admit they like anal

my wife likes anal once in a while when shes had a few and has huge orgasms from it to the point of not being able to walk or support her self or talk. but to try and talk about it or anything she acts like it never happened and bushes hard is it just being embarrassed or self conscious

any one else have this happen

 

Sounds like she only allows anal when she's drunk & then you get to do what you like to her at that stage - true ?

 

usually suggested by her doesnt happen often but when it does its enjoyed and forgotten.

 

I've never had that specifically happen. She might be embarrassed or self-conscious about it.

I assume you more anal sex, so here are some tips.

I recommend gradually bringing on the anal play. You can do this when you are eating her out. Once she is feeling good, start massaging her anus, and if she's really into it all her if you can slip a finger in. Be sure it's lubed up and your nails are trimmed well so you don't hurt her!

Another way to introduce the anal play is after she's hot from being eaten out gradually switch to licking her ass. Always be sure to keep her clit simulated throughout
any anal play.

Another idea is to talk to her about introducing a butt plug into your for sex play. If she's up for it use a small flexible one. There are plenty of "starter" butt plugs out
there. She might even prefer this over your finger.

During vaginal intercourse occasionally play with her anus, especially when she orgasms.

Don't underestimate the emotional component. Anal sex, in my experience, requires a lot of intimacy and trust that must be built up. So, If you mean it, tell her how lovely here ass is, how much pleasure it brings you,whatever you find attractive about it. Don't be obsessive about telling her, but when the thought genuinely strikes you let her know. She'll be happy to know how much you live it! Be sure to compliment her in other ways, or she'll think you only love her ass!

She might be afraid you will hurt her. So always be gentle, you can hurt her easily! This is part of the trust issue.

Be sure you never touch her pussy with anything that has touched her ass or you'll never be invited back!

 

It is still THE GREAT TABOO in "gentle society."
Idle chatter amongst us ladies quite often veers towards sex, although we tend not to discuss it in truly graphic terms.
However discussions on anal sex is just something ladies of my generation anyway tend to skip around, and when it is raised, it tends to be in negative terms. Even though I know their actions in the bedroom are otherwise.

Ladies just don't admit that Anal sex is simply fantastic and they love it when my hubby/partner sticks it up there!
We just don't go there.

So let your wife's avoidance of the subject be and just enjoy it when it happens. (The fact she does it means she likes it!)