My man has always enjoyed labia. He says he likes to feel something down there and likes playing with them tugging on them and pulling them apart to open up the vagina. So why do women want to have these removed or made smaller? I don't get it. Don't guys like women with labia or not?
I'm a man who loves everything about a pussy; the aroma, the taste and especially the look. I wouldn't dream of asking any woman to have any form of cosmetic surgery on her labia. It's far too beautiful for that and I totally agree with your man on the subject. It's a lovely feeling to spread open a warm wet labia to 'open up the vagina' as you put it. Long live the labia!!!
This is reassuring! On some reality show BevHHwives I think , one of them had hers removed because they interfered with sex. Not to mention she had them in a jar for show n tell. That was too much reality for me. Glad some guys like "curtains" as they were referred to here
Well put kingtonbob. I have had around 30 lovers in my lifetime and I have yet to discover a pussy that looks anything less than beautiful to me. I think we should start a publicity campaign to 'Save the Labia', before this problem gets out of control. The UK government should act now and put its money where it's men's mouths are. So come on you lot, it's time to 'Stand Up for the Labia!"
I'm in. I like 'em flapping in the breeze like a sail unfurling on a sailboat. Or little hidden ones that are just the cutest little things!
Beautifully put Scratcho! Thereby proving the point that both big and small are gorgeous. Stand Up for the Labia!
Wife has large thick meaty labia, and protrude out. In highschool she was very insecure about them. To top it off she had thin pubic hair, so they stuck out like a sore thumb. It wasn't until she had her second lover in a swinging experience that she got over them. I guess because he loved the big lips. He would preform oral on her for very long times. He would lay her lips open like a butterfly, and admire them. He compared how uniform they were, very equal in size. He told me they were the biggest pussy lips he had ever seen. I never thought much about it at the time, but later he showed me some photos of some of the women he had been with, and there was quite a few, and the ones he didn't have photo of, He had listed in a little black book. So I seen he had been with hundreds of women. She also had several women who, seen her nude and wasted no time checking them out. So what she thought was a curse, turned out to be a blessing.
Everyone wants to be like a teenage porn star. It's something I just can't understand - breast augmentation??? - yeah, maybe, the ego of some women is delicate and insecure, but fanny lips??? Spare me!
^ There are a whole lot of things I don't understand - things people do that I wouldn't necessarily do - but I accept people for who they are so long as they are not mean. I have had a breast aug (twice actually) and a labiaplasty (and hood removal). I admit that there are many times I regret the second breast aug. I wasn't as into running, biking, and working out at the time as I am now. Now I find they get in the way. Even from a fashion perspective, my boobs are too large to wear a lot of cute clothes. I went from an A to a C to a DD. C-cup would be perfect now. The motive behind my labiaplasty was equal parts comfort and appearance. Yeah, I admit I prefer the appearance of small labia over large labia, but if mine hadn't been so large I probably would have passed on it. It cost several thousand dollars so it wasn't something I took lightly, although I was only 22 and my older first husband picked up the tab. I have never for a moment regretted having had the labiaplasty. I definitely like they way I look down there.
If someone has the audacity to suggest that one should change their natural genitalia, that someone deserves to never see, touch, smell or otherwise interact with a live, naked human ever again.
I like pussy. Big labia or a tight little teen. It's all good to me. I'm gonna lick it and stick no matter what the box looks like, I'm after the goodie inside.
Why the fuck would anyone ask a woman to have this done? I saw a documentary where the first porn star was purported to have had it done. But that nasty box was pretty worn out, she looked like her twat had been on fire at one time and put out with a chopping axe.
I haven't yet had my surgery but will do so when I can afford it and the answer to the original poster is: discomfort, chaffing, a sense that one's genital area can be improved thus giving greater confidence, aesthetics and overall feel and with hood removal, access or better access allowing direct stimulation of the clitoris because the hood really can get in the way and retraction is often difficult.
[SIZE=14pt]Personally i believe that some men like reduced labia because that is the social norm right now. I think it is portrayed in pornography, reinforcing the belief. because porn typically shows men and women in the current trend, i believe this makes men and women feel they aren't normal, that they should change their bodies to reflect what is thought to be the new norm. for example in the 80's most porn showed women and men with a lot of public hair, and today you rarely see more than a little hair on a women in porn. i think that the labia is very similar. because its not the current style, some women feel their bodies aren't normal, and they get a labia reduction surgery which i think is pointless unless she really has a lot of issues with it. Yes I'm sure there are some women out there who need it because it maybe abnormally large and perhaps impede urination or sex, i would think thats what the surgery is aimed at. I read in a text book that there are many places in Africa were women actually try and stretch their labia out and make them bigger because it increases the amount of sensation for the man during sex. and that women with large labia are actually more attractive to men than those with smaller labia. [/SIZE] [SIZE=14pt]I guess if a women is that self conscious of it that it impedes her normal sexual health then that is why it is available, however I don’t think that everyone should look like a porn star just because that is what society today thinks is attractive. It is a major surgery and has risks, it could decrease sensation and there fore make sex less enjoyable. Guess that’s why we all have the right to make our own choices. [/SIZE]
if I could transfer the wings from my ex to my new gf I would do it - I liked them - I miss them - but it's OK, different style, different story.
Sing to the tune of Dylan's Lay Lady Lay: Lay, labia lay Lay across my big fat face Lay, labia lay, lay across my big nose and chin Stay, labia stay, please leave snail trails on my bed I long to see them in the morning light I long to reach for them in the night Stay, labia stay, stay with your clit on my forehead
A pussy is like a fine car. They come in all shapes and sizes. Some look much different than others. But a true lover of the form appreciates them all.