Am I that old where my back completely locked up in the middle of having sex? I didn't even finish. I'm laying on a heating pad right now and there's a chance I may call out of work tomorrow. Damn I feel like an old man. Lol. Venting and trying to laugh it off at the same time.
I had back surgery a little while ago. No aching back anymore. My problem is cramping! Leg cramps, toe cramps and foot cramps. No matter how much I hydrate. But yeah, throwing your back out is a bad deal. There are a few ways to loose wood quickly and that's one of them.
After a hard day's work, I had cramps hit both hamstrings at the same time when I was between her legs. Time out!! I fell off the bed once when changing positions and hit my head on the night table, resulting in so much laughter from her that sex had to pause for a while. No back injuries so far.
I start off by letting my partner know what I can and cannot do because of my aging body. Back issues play an big part in the positions I am able to fuck in. Just the other day my partner was riding me reverse cow girl with my legs spread apart. This was is okay for my back but after about ten minutes my hip began to ache and I had to have her get off my cock. So she asked what we could do and we opted for straight old missionary and finished that way.
Disk surgery survivor. The heating pad is your friend. Try some naproxin for a few days. Keep moving. When you're feeling better (and you will), build up your abdominal muscles - they keep your back in line. We're all walking around with bulging disks (I almost spelled dicks) it's just where they are that hurts and the very particular movement that puts them out of place. It's just a damn bad structural design. Funny, you hear people say, "oh, I have a backache"....oh no you don't....there's nothing like nerve pain, is there..?
You gotta stretch!! lol, it hasn't happened to my older partners yet and they're pretty slow or I'm on top.
Yes. I hadn't had such cramps since I quite playing football. You just have to stop what you're doing.
im blaming it on being over 40 now Lol I work construction and I have 2 young kids I'm running after 24-7 but I have never got that instant lockup in my back before. Gunna have to stretch I'm still hurtin
Damn, hope you feel better soon. Done that a few times already. I have a bad back so it's never a surprise. If it's not my back it's my legs or arms or shoulders giving out. And as soon as I feel one of them starting to get weak I loose my erection in less than a minute. A mental thing. Just so damn frustrating. We just call it good and try another time. Seeing it's your first time, I wouldn't be too concerned. If it happens again, definitely something to check out.
