Just Friends

Discussion in 'Free Love' started by Ice_Cool, Dec 9, 2013.

  1. RubySoho6

    RubySoho6 Organized Chaos

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    Yeah. I can't remember what thread it was in but I remember seeing you say that before.
     
  2. RubySoho6

    RubySoho6 Organized Chaos

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    I think some girls have an awful high opinion of themselves if they think every guy wants to have sex with them. I'd hate to be that egotistical. It may be natural to think about if you are attracted to someone when you meet them but my mind doesn't automatically go to sex and I certainly wouldn't let that stand in the way of a friendship.
     
  3. TheSamantha

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    I think there are guys out there who believe every guy wants to fuck any given girl too. A lot of guys think guys and girls can't be friends, that the guy is always on the prowl.

    I think it's hard for guys and girls to be actual friends. I think there has to be some weird circumstance for that to work, like you were friends since childhood or something.
     
  4. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    Definitely men/women can be friends. I think it's easier if you have already known the person for a while or if you just met, if at least one of you is in a relationship. Of course you could both be single and totally be friends, but there might be a little more of a chance of someone wanting more if you're both single.
     
  5. Jo King

    Jo King wannabe

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    I have quite a few female friends, I've thought about fucking each and everyone of them and don't want to fuck any of them at any given time.
    Some of us have had sex and some haven't. It's always there and never there.
     
  6. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    I have no clue what that means. Is your name Jerry?

    Thinking of many of the guys I was friends with, I may have thought about it, but I still didn't consider it.
     
  7. TheSamantha

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    Do you think guys care if their female ''friends'' are in relationships? Aren't they still in hot pursuit?
     
  8. usedtobehoney

    usedtobehoney Senior Member

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    Some guys care, some guys don't. Some girls care, some girls don't. I've seen it all.
     
  9. Quiet Storm

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    I've met some mature men that have never crossed the line with me and have remained faithful in their relationships.
    Same as I have been respectful to them. I don't taunt them or say things that would lead our conversation to wrongful territory.
    It's all about maturity.
    And I can honestly say, I haven't thought about all of them in a sexual way, some I have, but I kept it to myself and it was a passing thought.
     

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