I've been having a lot of fantastic and strang dreams that have have revolved around around sex. I feel a very strong enotion when I think about the warmth of a man's arms around me. I wonder how much emotion is good in a sexual relationship? Do emotional people make sex more fun or scary? How comfortable can a person or should a person be with her/his sexual partner? How do you know that the lust and desire you feel doesn't stem from some deep seeded, dangerous mental illness?