I am very, very disabled due to a very severe stroke in my early 40's. I live alone and have, female, carers come in, get me up and do my meals etc. One thing they have had to do recently is massage cream into my thighs for muscle spasms. I find this quite erotic and stimulating, and therefore I start to get an erection, so by the time they have finished massaging, I have a full erection. 2 are about half my age, and are obviously not bothered about it. [They are very, very good n close friends with each other.] 1 of them commented on the size of it the other day, as it gets quite big I suppose. Anyway, I am concerned that it will leak, or more during a massage. What should I do? [Not that I can do much about it.]
I think they've seen it all and understand that you have no control over it. All you can be is frank and honest. Can you, perhaps, take care of matters before their visit?
