Quick history. My wife has little interest in sex and intimacy. Occasionally we have sex but it’s all vanilla. No toys no trying new things just I rub her till she cums, I screw her till I cum, I do a little oral clean up and it’s over. This is once every 3-4 weeks. I love everything sex. I want to try so many things. I’ve poured my heart out to her and she smiles and says yes then nothing changes. Do any of you have someone you spend time with online. Kinda like a friends w/benefit but long distance? How did you find someone to trust? Any stories you’d like to share?
I have met a couple people like myself, who are too socially awkward/weird to have normal human conversations. So we talk online and share stories and discuss fetishes and stuff.
How did you find people to chat with. I’ve done a little searching. It’s all models and what I call fakes. Not real people you can actually share thoughts and get to know.
First thing, sorry for your troubles at home. That’s no fun when there is such a delta in desire. However, I think you will be able to find several on here who are willing to chat and have some fun.
Hip is a good place to start, look at there previous posts to see what they like to post about, then make contact through pm's
I agree it can be hard to find a good match. I’ve had no success. It could be me, but I think Im a pretty straightforward and honest guy. I’d really love to find a jerk off partner too.
I chat with like minded people on here and have made a profile on xhamster where I have found lots of people to share stories with. Yeah some of them are full of crap but for the most part there are some genuine people in need of some verbal release. Hit me up if you ever wanna spitball!
Many years ago I was introduced to an online world called Second Life. After some experimenting I adopted a female/ transgender avatar as my Second Life "self". Over a period of about 10 years I had sex with at least 3,000 different avatars. Sex in Second Life means masturbating at home in front of your computer whilst you and the other person encourage each other. You watch your avatars having sex whilst you masturbate. Some days I would have multiple online lovers in the day. Mentally it was amazingly exciting and stimulating and it is a VERY, very intense experience for some reason. (During this period of my life I was in a relationship with someone in real life who was not happy and searching for more. She had decided we could both seek out online experiences as long as we didnt meet up with them in reality.) I also had a number of long term lovers in Second Life during that time, including a woman who was a lesbian in her real life, but had a cock fetish. She loved cock, but didn't like the male attitude that generally went with it in real life. In Second Life she chased transgender females relentlessly, for their cocks. It was her way of living out this fantasy, safely. She was my very regular online wank buddy. We would often email each other to check when the other would be online and meet up and wank furiously together. We would also go to clubs in Second Life and seek out sexual encounters together so we could watch each other having sex whilst we masturbated at home. Many years of very exciting and fond memories in a fantasy world.
I was just talking to my wife about this the other night. When I was younger I had a great jerk off partner we always watched porn and played it was a lot of fun and still gets me all turned on now . It turns my wife on to hear about it and the stories and I think as does she I should find another