Jealousy

my mom is a Scorpio and she's extremely independant.. least jealous person I know!

 

Oh I'm independent, but if I feel like your betraying me I turn into super ****.

 

I understand - my mom kinda is like that too

 

what qualifies as betrayal?

oh and I'm probably a 4-6 although I pretend I'm a 0 even when I'm not

 

I'd say I get more insecure than jealous.

 

Flirting with other girls infront of me and saying shit that you just shouldn't say when you in a commited relationship for one.

 

do you think there's a big difference between insecurity and jealousy? I think about that sometimes and come up on different sides of it.

 

is he a flirter? you would kill me if we were in a relationship together. I flirt and I don't even realize it. I'm like hardwired. I just think it's fun, I'm not like trying to pick anybody up.

what kinds of stuff should you not say?

 

That almost sounds more like anger over rude behavior than all out jealousy.

 

To me there's a difference..- disliking someone cause you wish you were in their place.. while insecurity doesn't necessarily implies you wish you were in someone else's place and don't necessarily dislike them because.. you're not them or don't have something they have or you think they have more than you.. that's jealousy to me..

 

cool so like if you were with somebody and they were flirting with somebody else it would bring up both and accentuate each other?

 

I flirt although I am in a relationship.. being with someone has never stopped me from flirting, but it's always in a playful way.. I am not cheating or intending to by flirting..

If my boyfriend flirts I admit the thought "does he like her more than me" will cross my mind and it's silly but.. I trust him. My boyfriend doesn't seem like a flirter though.. if he did it would definitely make me feel a little insecure just cause it doesn't seem in his nature to flirt..

 

Jealousy shows insecurity and lack of trust in a relationship.

 

Which bible did you read that in?

 

Jealousy definitely shows insecurity but I believe it is possible to be insecure without being jealous.

 

Who said a bible had anything to do with it?

 

I can agree with that.

 

bout a 4

 

He seems to do it without thinking about it, but it seriously pisses me off. I ask him to be aware of what he's saying not to stop flirting.

 

Intensional or not he shouldn't flirt in front of you out of respect.