and only seeing the bad side of men through other people and from friends stuff like "married men are so much heathier and happier than married women because women have to do all their work" and my fiancee saying "being married and having kids sucks" and when I said it he was like all mad and said "why do you hate the thought of having kids and marriage so much!!!!!" shit like that and stuff like "my husband never does any work I have to do it allllll!!!!"
SOunds like a sucky guy. It takes a long time to find the right one. My husband does everything he can to make my life easy...
awe ): There's a lot of men like that. They're insecure and you have to stay away from them. Maybe you can find a knight in shinning armor? I was totally addicted to xanax and partying and shopping when I started dating my husband. I got fired from a 50k a year job for lying (I would not go into work and claim i was out int he field all day). It was just a bad phase of my life. All I wanted to do was go on vacations and shop and do drugs and drink bellinis. I totally changed as soon as my husband proposed. Quit smoking cigarettes, stopped doctor shopping, quit doing a lot of things that were bad for me. He was so supportive and definitley the catalyst for that.