haha, so true. I really don't like it when people decide to judge others for their number of sexual partners. sex means different things to each person; to some, it's the manifestation of deep feelings of love, to others, it's just something fun and enjoyable to do with someone you like or are attracted to. sex is not a big deal unless you make it. my count is, as far as I know, 18. not at once. not many, but I am exceptionally lazy when it comes to chasing tail.
Touchy subject... I guess some people think lower numbers make them holier than the rest. You can get an STD from the 1st person or the 51st person... I'd have to remember back to 15 years ago to count, and I'd rather not...those people were not important. I didn't put any notches anywhere as a memento.
As I said in a thread before, I've slept with around 15 people give or take a blackout or two and don't plan on more. I'm not proud or unproud(?) of the number.
See, to me it's both, and I prefer there to be as little crossover between the two as possible. It's a whole different experience to make love with someone you care deeply about than it is to fuck the shit out of someone you don't know the name of, and they both have their merits. It only gets shit when one of you is doing one and the other the other. There's nothing worse than trying to have meaningless sex with someone who you know loves you way more tha you love them.
Its so much easier to have sex with someone you dont really care about/love. I've slept with 2 guys. I was never in love though. Its just sex...
this doesnt hold true for me. and i would consider myself as in the camp of folks with a real dislike for people judging each other for their sexual past....to me it doesnt really matter how many people you're with so long as you keep yourself safe, healthy, and happy.
Well that is the closest amount possible to having slept with one. And sex is like trees in that way. If you've seen one you've seen 'em all.