Please somebody help me I'm so scared I'm going to loose my partner! I really have lost my Sex drive! I had an abortion 4 months ago and I'm on the depo provera injection now could this be something to do with it? I used to want to have sex 100 times a day and now I can't even bare him touching me
Couple counseling doesn't sound bad. Too many people and others in your life have ideas and advice for yours and love interest life.
Considering she had an abortion, that can be classified as a traumatic experience that can really mess up your relationship. I have no idea about the specifics or dynamics of your relationship so I can't give you any advice, other than to seek professional help, as it sounds like a serious issue.
get off the depo shot as soon as you can. Shit is bad news. We had to use lube the whole time I was on it, within a couple of weeks of switching to the pill I didn't need it anymore. that was really the least of my worries while I was on it. It turned me into a raving lunatic.
Defiantly talk to your doctor and be as open with your partner. You don't want to let too much time pass....if you don't resolve/work through this now...it will be a problem for a long time.