It's *over*

he was actually 19 and i was 14. i think it was fine age-wise, i like older guys anyway. and i was his gf not playmate, i enjoyed most of my time with him, he just became a bad bf in the end. i'll continue dating older guys, prly older than him. and he wasn't scoping for younger girls- he never had a gf before me and was quite inexperiences.. and age wasn't an issue since i was mature then

 

As sweet a girl as you are, you WILL meet a decent guy who meets your standards, gruven. Age doesn't matter. What counts is the feelings, compatibility, love, what YOU believe in, and stuff like that.

Plus, you ARE quite mature, for I've come across people around your age who are...shall we say, not as capable of interpreting things quite as sensibly as you do. On the other hand, I've also come across mature people in the said age group, just like yourself. Another example of how age doesn't necessarily mean a great deal in determining one's maturity. I think it's just that, for many people, it's a tricky territory because of the societal conditioning they might(might? lol) have been through.

You know... As much as this relationship didn't work for you in the end, it DID last for a pretty long time. So that's at least something to be, in a way, proud of(....well, depending...). It just sucks it didn't work out and, as far as I can see, it WAS his loss... But maybe this was for the better on your part. Don't fret, look ahead. Keep yer chin up, N' shake yer booty! Haha

Cheers!

 

Yeah chica ... just browse through the library (did I say library? I meant junkyard) and check out other fellas. You'll meet the right person one day, if you look hard enough. In the meantime, just have fun with it. =)

I know this has probably been said way too many times, but ... *shrugs* can't hurt to say it again, right? :H

 

Im older then you by six days is that old enough for you

 

I'm really sorry to hear that- I have some idea how hard this is! Hang in there and the best advice I gan give you is to keep active, go out with girlfriends, and give it time. The sadness will go away, and so will that awful emptiness in your chest. I know how this feels! Hang in there!

 

thanks for the advice guys. i'm just enjoying the single life, meeting new people and seeing who i can connect with. i'm trying to forget about him for a while until i an thin about it without regret or sadness. i feel obligated to reply to all your nice posts, but i think i'll leave this thread be for a while as it's a constant reminder etc ;x but thanks guys

 

I have you by 9 years, so get that Vdub Bus and get your sexy earthy little ass down here for a summer of fun =)

Lovin you sweet jam.

 

yay well right now you're my most likely candidate, from the south, mind you ;D when i get that bus me and my sweet mama friend will try to come down, or stop by if we're down there for a festie!

 

Wow, two mamas? what will i do with so much inspiration =)

Hope to see ya sweet, we will make sure you have a good time.

We own a creek ya know. A few naked hippies, naked in the sand
and token up before a soak.

Sound fun?

 

i know how you feel. i still miss my ex and we broke up like 2 1/2 years ago. i think of him everyday. but the pain wont be as bad. you'll probably find someone. =)

 

I'd say though,don't rush into anything - it's good to take time out and appreciate that you have choices and that it's your show.It's good to get to the point where you remember to laugh at yourself and not blame yourself for too much.Eventually you'll find you get bored of thinking about X and move on.But you never forget em - totally - thats for sure - because it's become part of who you are.I find it's like getting over an illness or an injury - the pain comes in waves but gradually subsides over time - little by little.But you do get better,and stronger than before,because of it.

 

your home sounds like paradise ahh i hate the city

 

IM very sorry to hear that , same thing happend to me and my gf but in a matter of 3 weeks